Dec 132014
 

artemisia escort plussize mature antiqueDon’t fancy spending Christmas by yourself?  Come and spend it nestled in the ample bosom of voluptuous (size 16), very busty (G cup), Sydney-based GFE escort, Artemisia de Vine.

A very Merry Christmas Gentlemen!

Indulge yourself in the ultimate Christmas present this year by spending time receiving erotic TLC with me.  Whether it is a playful couple of hours or the full overnight/Christmas day experience  there is nothing quite like the company of an attractive, friendly and warmly sexual woman.  Rubenesque curves and the maturity to know how to use them!

Artemisia profile pic 2014Do you have something on your sexual bucket list? I’m on both Santa’s naughty and nice lists… I am a diverse practitioner with a greedy appreciation for the deeply sensual right through to the outright kinky and design play sessions around the unique wiring of each individual play partner.

This Christmas I am in the mood to offer the ultimate girlfriend experience!
Time to be held in my soft bosom, stroked skin-on-skin and loved up. Let’s pleasure each other in my erotic oasis with a combination of fun sex games, erotic massage, hot & sensual sexy times, feasting and companionship!  Or perhaps you are more inclined to get your christmas kink on?  Let’s put our minds together and see if we can’t come up with something tailor-made for us.  It will be an awful lot of fun!

Here is a blog about what it is like on a GFE date with me.

Please also take the time to read what others have written about their time with me.

I am open your suggestions but here are some ideas to get your imagination whirring.

Lady spanked mirrorIMG_7257-2Delightful Dalliance: Would you like to spend a couple of hours being pampered? Perhaps one of my famous erotic massage sessions followed by play time in the bed?  The girlfriend experience is as much about companionship as it is about discovering each other’s steamy secrets.  It is about fun little sex games, permission to let the masks fall away and just be yourself… No need to slip into performance role, you have the chance to let go of goals and just explore the possibilities with an affectionate and playful lady.
$700 for 2 hrs
$1000 for 3hrs

Artemisia ecstatic conscious sexChristmas lunch and playtime: What a hedonistic feast!  Shall we stay in and eat off each other’s bodies or go out to one of the local restaurants for a gourmet affair only to return for play time and companionship here in my lush play space, The de Vinery?  We would need to pre-book pretty quick so please contact me asap if you would like the restaurant option. 6hrs $2000 (includes food & wine budget of up to $200)

Artemisia de Vine antique queen final logoOvernight Indulgence:  Spend the evening playing and sexploring then stay the night.  Either Christmas Eve or Christmas night.  A combination of playtime, affection and  companionship.  What will Santa bring you on Christmas morning?  Perhaps you’d like to take this opportunity to try something you’ve always wanted to.  $2500 from 7pm-10am  

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topless reclining

Santas Ultimate Gift!  Enjoy my company & seductive attentions from Christmas Eve till Christmas night. 24 hours of sensual affection and wickedly playful sex games.  The evening begins around 7 or 8pm on christmas eve, allowing time for us to enjoy some wine and nibbles together as well as sexy play time.  Spend the night snuggled up to my soft warm body and wake up to a Christmas surprise!   Breakfast provided.  Company and/or play time in the morning…then we can feast together for Christmas lunch either here at my play space or pre-book one of the local restaurants that are providing Christmas feasts.

Options for a relaxing afternoon with more play time if the mood strikes.  One of my famous hot oil erotic massages perhaps?  Or would you like to explore your kinky side?  Deeply sensual sexploration?  The evening ends 24 hours from when it began, spent and satisfied from tummy.  $4500 for 24 hours over Christmas

Pre-booking and 20% deposit required.   If you would like to explore my websites, see my sensual side here… and my BDSM side here…

Artemisia de Vine

Artemisia de Vine

More about me:
I am a voluptuous Goddess and elegant lady with a greedy appreciation for the full spectrum of erotic arts, from the deeply sensual through to the downright kinky.   I am an Erotic Massage specialist, GFE Escort and BDSM Mistress/switch.  I bring a depth and skill to my play that can only come from the confidence and experience of maturity.

I welcome older gentlemen who prefer the company of someone mature and young men who want to play with someone who knows what she is doing.  Whether you want to explore, learn, transform or just sink into my soft bossom and enjoy the company of a lady, there are sessions to suit you all.  Come into my oasis and treat yourself to some erotic TLC.
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Sep 212014
 
Artemisia de vine

Artemisia de vine

I blurted this post out on facebook in the wee hours this morning.  A friend asked to forward it so here it is in sharable blog-form, all rough and raw like my heart…

Ah this familiar nut. How to gently guide new lovers into ways of being that are not modelled after male-arousal-system-centric porn? How to gently let them know that my arousal system just doesn’t work that way and that what they’ve been taught by example their whole life is only half the picture. That they are actually going to have to change from the base assumption up before they become the extraordinary lover I know they can be… Before my needs can truly be met… before their potential pleasure can be significantly and dramatically expanded too…

As a Conscious Sexuality practitioner and Escort I can guide them. They expect it. They seek me out precisely because I will lead them into lived experiences of engaging with their sexuality… and mine… from a much richer place. A place that truly gets female-bodied arousal and taps into far more of their own.

But how to gently guide a personal lover without falling into teacher/work mode and without crushing their ego? Afterall it’s not their fault. The information just hasn’t been available for them to learn in most cases! They are not selfish. They are glorious sexual beings following their delicious intuition and what they’ve been exposed to. Most of them are very eager to please me!

It is just that our whole culture hasn’t even had a language for the kind of sex that fulfils me. Female-bodied folk haven’t even known it about ourselves to ask for it! It’s been cruelly invisible and tucked away in the wordless places on a collective cultural level… Only catching glimpses of it but not truly, intentionally letting it pour on out in the gushing, rushing wonder that is possible.

The female-bodied arousal sexual model that really harnesses our full potential is new for us all. As is embodied mindful sexuality in general. Holistically connected sexuality… conscious sexuality…

It is just not as easy as asking new lovers for certain acts to be done a certain way. The whole damn sexual ideology has to shift in its foundations.

I know how to get there. I cannot be satisfied by the old sexual paradigm anymore. I have to guide my lovers there… but back to the old nut… working out how to show them without ruining everything… It is particularly tricky when I crave someone who can take the lead so I can let go but they are intimidated by my knowledge.

It is such a tricky fix.   Perhaps I am supposed to know the answer already but I don’t.  This unknowing gives me empathy for my lovers and their unknowing.

Artemisia profile pic 2014About the Author: Artemisia de Vine is a Sydney-based escort and conscious erotic arts practitioner who offers sessions that are a mixture of learning, playing and exploring sexuality.  She has two websites, one for those more enticed by the sensual end of the spectrum and one for those more wired to explore kink and BDSM.  You can join her mailing list or follow her on Twitter.

Sep 162014
 

Artemisia nude escort CEAIt gives me such a warm glow helping others explore their sexuality.  My client this afternoon was a middle-aged business man from Amercia.  He arrived at my door, straight from Sydney airport, nervous but keen to explore the erogenous potential of the male g-spot.  He had tried a few times before but had not achieved the pleasure he had read was possible from anal and prostate massage.  After reading why my anal massages are so popular he decided it was worth trying a booking with me.

Midway through the experience, all his shy reserve was gone and he was moaning and exclaiming, “This is incredible!  I’ve never felt anything like this before!”

At the end I asked him what his experience was like.  He replied, “I didn’t feel as though I had erogenous zones, I felt like I was one big erogenous zone!”  

My lovers bottomI asked if he had experienced anal orgasm before?  “No this was the first time.  I was felt it several times during that massage.  Incredible feeling!”

He also gave me the feedback, “This was a lot of money for me but  5 minutes in I had the sense that this was a sound investment.  You delivered exactly what you said you would on your website and in person.  You represent yourself accurately.  You listened to what I wanted and gave it to me.”

My style is quite different.  I see the sexual experience as so much more than physical acts and correct technique.  I aim  to facilitate an erotic journey inside my clients that takes into account their whole being.   I use a combination of techniques from sexological bodywork, tantra, lomilomi, Taoism and some I have invented myself from years of helping men explore their g-spots.   It is quite a unique session.

To read more about the types of scenarios possible  see my succulent array of erotic massages here.

Artemisia de Vine

Artemisia de Vine

About the Author:  Artemisia de Vine is a Sydney-based, plus-size Goddess with a greedy appreciation for the erotic arts from the sensual to perverse:  Escort, Erotic Massage Practitioner, BDSM specialist, Mistress, Switch and Spanko. See her websites for the  Sensual through to the Kinky (BDSM).  You can follow her on twitter or subscribe to her mailing list for erotic tips, tours and updates.

 

Jun 082014
 

Artemisia de Vine escort Sydney CEA

“Artemisia looks like she has stepped out of an oil painting with her english rose complexion and womanly curves!  She is a Rubenesque Goddess who radiates warmth and sexual confidence in the way only a mature woman can.  I found her to not only be a delightfully sensual lover but also a fascinating companion.  She is an educated, classy and accomplished lady with a wicked streak.  She is bringing back the art of the courtesan while remaining really easy and comfortable to be with.  I could just be myself.”  – Brian 62yo, Sydney

“She is a heady mix of womanly curves and the friendly, flirty confidence that excites me.    If it is a skinny, young, super model you seek then go else where.  If it is an encounter with a real woman who knows what she is doing and is great to be with then I recommend spending an overnight with Artemisia.  She made me feel so alive and young again.”  – Mark 54yo, Canberra

Hello and welcome!

Artemisia escort divaMy name is Artemisia de Vine and I offer dinner dates and overnight girlfriend experience encounters to select discerning clients who enjoy the erotic company of an intelligent, curvy, woman in her late thirties.

Do you crave the touch of skin-on-skin and the delight of sinking into ample, silicon-free bosom?  Are you attracted to a voluptuous lady with soft, soft G cup breasts that jiggle when she laughs? Do you prefer the company of someone you can relax and be yourself with?

Do you find that you enjoy the erotic delights ever so much more if it is part of a date?  A chance to spend time getting to know each other and enjoy each other’s company, flirting, building tension over a meal together and then retiring to the bedroom to explore each other’s bodies?  Perhaps then falling asleep all snuggled up… only to be gently woken for lazy morning sex? Then perhaps what I offer is for you.

I have put together a list of answers to frequently asked questions you might find useful when deciding whether or not I am the right escort for you.

Artemisia de Vine antique queen final logoAt a Glance:

  •  Age: Late 30s.  A lady never tells… ;)
  • Height: 5”6 or 167cm without heels
  • Hair: Blonde, curly but occasionally straightened, bra strap length
  • Eyes: Green
  • Bust: Silicon-free G cup.
  • Dress size: 14-16

See Gallery here… 

What actually happens on a dinner date? 

Dinner dates are a mixture of company, sharing a meal and play time.

We meet at the hotel or restaurant of your choice just like any other date.  We spend time enjoying each other’s company for the length of a the meal and some friendly drinks.  There is plenty of time to flirt and discover each other without stifling clock watching pressure.  We can let arousal build and enjoy the anticipation.  I really enjoy this kind of booking because sex is so much more fulfilling for both of us if we have time to seduce each other.

We then retire to the hotel or return to my private, lush play space affectionately called “The DeVinery”.  Here we have a leisurely few hours to sexplore together.  We find where we naturally overlap and enjoy discovering each others bodies, secret turn ons and see what unfolds.   I can be deeply sensual and affectionate but also enjoy helping your explore your wild side.

Length of booking: 5hrs

Fee: $1700  (Meal and hotel provided by you.)

Lady spanked mirrorIMG_7257-2How is an overnight booking any different to a dinner date?

More time to let things unfold in the evening, spending the night snuggled up to my soft curves and being gently awoken for morning sex… and possibly breakfast together.  The rest is the same as the dinner date scenario… company, shared meal on a date, seduction…  Never underrate seduction!  The more levels of us that are involved in a sexual encounter the more satisfying it is.  Sex is not just about the physical acts but about the places we go inside ourselves and with each other.

This type of booking requires a minimum of 6hrs sleep time.  It is a mixture of company, play time and snuggles.

Length of booking: We can begin anytime from 7pm and enjoy each other’s company unhurried until 9:30-10 ish the next day.  The cost is the same even if you start later or finish earlier to fit around your schedule.  The point is I allow up to that much time for things to take their natural course.

Fee: $2500

Do you do longer bookings for trips?

Yes I do.  However we need to have seen each other before on a shorter booking to ensure that we are suitable play mates.   Trip rates can be negotiated together in private.

Artemisia de Vine

Artemisia de Vine

How about shorter bookings?

Yes you are most welcome to come and spend a couple of hours with me in The DeVinery.  I prefer booking lengths that allow us unhurried sexploration time.  I do occasionally offer 1 hr bookings but much prefer a minimum of 90mins-2hrs.  If we are going to do it, we need to do it properly.

1 hr $400
90mins $550

2 hr $700 

Special rates: negotiated for those who want a regular monthly (or more frequent) play date.  I only offer this once I have seen you at least once.

 Do you tour?

Yes!  My most common touring destinations are Melbourne, Canberra and hopefully Perth.  I am open to touring elsewhere if there are enough enquiries.  Please join my mailing list to receive discrete updates about tours as well as sexy pictures and erotica that I write.  I also publish the odd useful blog on how to explore even more pleasure in your sexuality.

wild hair escort Artemisia bustyI follow you on twitter and you talk a lot about kinky stuff and I am not into that, can we still play?  

I am a complex sexual being.  I sometimes like to explore my sensual side and other times like to explore my kinky side.  Sometimes I want pizza for dinner… sometimes I want a minestrone soup… sometimes a spicy curry…  I cannot be boxed into categories like “sensual” or “kinky” but have a greedy appreciation of the lot.

The thing all my sessions have in common is a desire to help you explore your unique erotic wiring, just the way it is.  Each of us has a unique erotic fingerprint.  No two lovers are the same.  With me, you can let the masks fall off and be exactly who you are.  We can have an honest chat on the phone before you book and see whether or not we have enough in common to be suitable playmates.

I’m kinky as all get out, can we do the girlfriend experience and be kinky too?

Possibly.  It depends on the scenario.  If I am in my Mistress or Dominatrix role, I do not have sex with my slaves or submissives.  It just doesn’t work for me.  However, if we are doing a kinky role play I may be up for it.  So ask me.  No harm in asking right?

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topless reclining

Do you do role play fantasies?

Oh yes I do!  Feel free to ask me what it is you really want to experience and I’ll be honest about whether or not that is something I can provide.  Some things I enjoy are role plays:

  • Teacher/Student
  • Boss/Employee
  • Age Play
  • Tie and Tease scenarios
  • And a whole variety of really creative scenarios… Email me your ideas and I’ll let you know…

I heard you do erotic massage can that be included in our evening?

Yes it can!  I am well-known for my erotic massages.  They are designed to drop you down deep into a blissful erotic state of consciousness, and I draw on tantra and other erotic embodiment techniques to make the experience so. much. more. than just a rub and tug.

However if you want this very special erotic massage, you will need to come to my space as I need certain equipment to make it work.  If this is a feature you particularly desire, then when I am on tour, make sure you ask me whether or not I have this with me before you book.

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What other sexual activities do you do?

I am very well-known for being fantastic at pegging (strap-on play) and have a wide variety of toys.  I have introduced many men to the joys of male G-spot massage over the years.  Pegging can be deeply sensual or naughty and dirty…  I wrote a blog to help you discover your pegging style on my other kink-centric website.  Check it out here…

There are also a lot of activities I am fond of but for discretion sake do not want to publicly list.  Please drop me an email and ask if there is something specific you are hoping for.  I negotiate activities from person to person depending on what feels right.  (That strap on pic is not me but the rest are all me).

Please note that all my play includes safe sex practices.  This is non negotiable.

 

Artemisia de Vine

Artemisia de Vine

You say “select” gentlemen, what criteria do I need to meet for you to accept a booking with me? 

It’s pretty simple, if you want to do something, I try to create the space for you to explore that, but you need to show respect and get consent first.

It is true that I do not accept everyone who applies for a play date with me.  However, you need not fear that I am judging you on your appearance, cultural background, age, dis(ability).  What is important to me is that we have a certain level of rapport and respect.  We need to be able to get along or it’s not going to be fun for either of us!  We can work out whether or not we would like a booking together by a chat on the phone.

Mutual respect is vital.  I treat you as the valuable human and sexual being you are.  I care for your well-being and strive to create valuable experiences that allows you to express your true sexual self.

Artemisia ecstatic conscious sexIn return, I expect to be approached in the same manner that you would a non paid date.   Acting like a gentleman is an absolute must on my criteria.  If you approach me in a crude or degrading way then no, I will not share my vulnerable sexual self with you.  If you want to play dirty games that include dirty talk then you need to negotiate that first, not just assume its ok to speak to me that way.  I might love it!  But only if it is consensual.

Cleanliness including oral hygiene is vitally important!

Do you see older gentlemen? 

Yes I do see older gents and very much enjoy mature company.  I see people from 18-100 and meet them where they are at.

What about younger men?

Yes for sure!  I am surprised and delighted to discover that now I am more mature, I am attracting lots of younger men who want to enjoy the sexual confidence of a mature woman.  I’m having a lot of fun in my cougar years!  Each age group has their appeal…

In your experience, what makes someone good at GFE

The girlfriend experience is about acknowledging that sex is more than just a physical act.  We are sexual beings body, mind and soul. Truly satisfying sexual play takes the time to unfold and drop the masks.  It is about including all levels of us in our play.  I believe that at our core we are all the same.  It is easy for me to see that when I look into a strangers eyes… So it’s not about play acting, but taking time to connect and create a moment together..   It’s about holding the safe space to draw out an aspect of us that needs to be expressed.

That could be a moment of affection and laughing companionship… It could be playfulness… It could be intense sensual surrender… It could be a profound moment of sexual realness…   It is what it is in the moment.

I am good at allowing you to be yourself.  I create a lush atmosphere where the rest of the world drops away and you can let your guards down.  Play time with me is about recharging on more than just a physical level.

Ok I’m interested, how can I apply for a date with you?

Great!  The best way to get a feel for each other is to have a chat on the phone.  If you are shy, you are welcome to start with an email enquiry but we will need to chat before we confirm the booking.   Contact me here…

 

Feb 232014
 

 

Artemisia de Vine EM Prof logoHi, my name is Artemisia de Vine and I am a professional dominatrix, switch and domestic discipline spankee.   I also offer top shelf, exquisitely sensual, erotic massages and other types of intimate erotic sessions including conscious sexuality sessions.

This sometimes confuses people.  Those that want to be held and nurtured fear that my kinky side negates my ability to also be sensual and loving .  Those that are wired to want a dominatrix to take full, merciless control doubt my ability to pull that off if I also offer lush sensual sessions.

Sex and/or BDSM are not merely a set of acts but are rather a place we go inside ourselves and a journey into erotic consciousness we share together. 

Here’s the thing.  All of the above sessions are aiming to get to the same place.  In all the above scenarios we are aiming to build tension and then let go and fully open to our erotic experience…  To enter into that illusive but divine state of being that allows the “talking mind” to stop chattering… to be fully in the moment… embodied… exquisite surrender… washed over with sensations…

More important than any act performed, it’s a place within us we really crave to enter.  It’s primarily a state of consciousness.  Everything else is just a means to get us there.

This is one of the main reasons I chose to call myself a Conscious Erotic Arts Practitioner.  While the kinds of sessions I offer are broad, they all have one thing in common.

I am a specialist in Erotic States of Consciousness. 

We are all aiming for that mystical magical place within us whether we are aware of it or not.  Really at the heart of it we are searching for more than the physical release of an orgasm.  The truly mind-blowing erotic experiences include our whole being… mind, body, heart and that illusive thing many call soul…  They are mind blowing because of the state of consciousness our minds and bodies enter into.

However, each of us is wired uniquely so each person is going to need to explore a different way of getting there.   What interests me is working out the puzzle each client presents.  I thrive on working out what is going to be the best kind of play for them at this particular point in time.

For some it is an overty sexual or “horny” feeling and for others it is primarily about power play and release.  All of it falls under the category of eroticism to me as I use eroticism to mean “eros”… the creative life force that pumps through our veins and motivates us in all sorts of conscious and not so conscious ways.   The point is, each person is unique in how they access this within themselves.

 

Erotic play and meditation have a lot in common. 

Recently science has caught up with knowledge us kinksters have known for ages.  Kink is the new yoga.  It has all the benefits of meditating and exercising.  Kinksters often report feeling calm and blissful after play like their system has been re-booted.  They often report insights into themselves and a feeling of connectedness with themselves and others.

However, it is not just kink that can have that effect on us… It’s not just pain or power play… it’s sensual pleasure too… Tantra practitioners, Taoists and various other erotic esoteric traditions have been pointing to the potential sexuality has to access profound states of being for thousands of years.

Most of us stumble across the amazing potential sexuality has to access profound and sometimes life altering states of consciousness at some point.  Or we at least touch on it… and have a sense there is something more if only we could just get the right set of circumstances together…  Maybe we think we need to be in limerence (that fresh new honey moon in-loveness) in order to access it… Perhaps we are waiting for the right lover…

The truth is, while having a lover who is on the same page as you really helps, there are skills we can learn within ourselves that make the likelihood of reaching these ecstatic, erotic states far more likely, far more often, whether we are in a romantic relationship or not.   We really don’t need to rely on the temporary high of being newly in love to access this delicious and precious part of ourselves.

 

The conscious erotic arts are about intentionally cultivating these states of being within ourselves. 

The more aware we are about our own unique erotic wiring… the more we develop a deeper relationship with our inner workings… the more conscious we are about it… the further we can go into each experience.

This is not something I can do to someone any more than a tango teacher can do the tango to someone.  It is something that can be cultivated however. It also helps considerably to have an experienced play partner whose intention is to create all the right circumstances to enhance potential erotic states of being and experience.   It also helps to learn the steps from someone who has danced them many times…  Again like the experienced tango teacher…

My role is to guide people into the skills needed to cultivate this way of approaching our eroticism be it kinky or sensual.  My sessions include consultations to help each person work out their unique wiring.  Together we design a series of play sessions that allow that person to explore their holistic erotic potential in a way that compliments their individual journey.

For some that may be receiving a series of lush full being erotic massages that allow them to just lie back and receive while practicing the techniques I’ve taught them… to enter deeper erotic states of consciousness…  to let go, surrender the ego and soar…

For others this may be an intense power exchange session where I am a sadistic bitch from hell and they have no choice but to surrender to the moment…  sometimes this leads to state of consciousness kinksters call “subspace” where the sense of time passing is distorted as each moment becomes an eternity yet nothing at the same time… where the ego lets go… the chattering mind ceases.. often accompanied by ecstatic, heart opening bliss…

Are you seeing the common link here?  Surrender… letting go of the ego… letting a different, wiser part of ourselves take the drivers seat… A part of us that feel connected as though we are all One…

Like in meditation, the ego doesn’t like giving up the driver’s seat… it will trick us in any way it can to try to hold onto control.  Each person will need a different way of approaching their eroticism in order to flick that switch that allows them to let go.  Some need to feel super safe, held and nurtured while others like the illusion of another person in control forcing them to let go.  Sometimes we need to role play in whatever way is necessary to get something deep inside our unconscious to surrender.

When we do get to that state of being it is exquisite… for many it is a spiritual experience… utterly divine… and has all the same benefits as meditation or yoga only with the added benefit of arousal.  Can’t complain about that right!

The point is that when I take on these different roles, dominatrix, switch, spankee, sensual lover, massage practitioner… I am doing so after a thorough consultation process where we both agree to take on the role necessary to aid the person going on the erotic journey.

Does that mean that I am just acting?

Am I just pretending to be a sadistic bitch or a loving erotic nurturer or a bratty spankee?  Does that mean I am not a “real” Mistress?

No, it doesn’t.  All aspects I offer are naturally within me.  I only offer to play roles that are really part of me.  I am just really good at drawing on them at will.  Within me dwell the full spectrum of personality archetypes… in you too… it is a skill to learn how to draw on them at will and one that I am quite practiced at if I do say so myself ;)

 

This sounds great!  How do I learn these skills?

If you are interested in exploring how to do this, sign up to my mailing lists through the websites listed below to find out about upcoming workshops.  You may be particularly interested in my workshop on “Embracing Erotic Shadows through Role Play”.  Alternatively you can contact me to discuss a personalised series of sessions that allow you to explore you unique wiring.   One of sessions give you a good test taste of this potential but it really is a journey so those that opt to invest in their erotic self discovery and personal sexual development benefit most from a series of sessions.

Despite the common thread between all my sessions, those seeking sensual conscious sexuality and erotic massage sessions prefer not to be exposed to my darker kinky personalities… and vise versa.  To respect that, I have two different websites.  One is for those who wish to explore Conscious Kink and the other is for those who want to explore the more Sensual Conscious Erotic Arts.

However I personally don’t see a conflict.  Both sites represent the real me. I am  following my natural inclinations.  This  sometimes means engaging sensually and intimately and sometimes means explore my perverse power play lust… or sometimes just playing spanking games for the fun of it.  It’s all me.  When playing with another I search for the place where we naturally overlap and create a session within that space.

www.consciouseroticarts.com
www.consciouskink.com

Nov 142013
 

diamond pussy CEA logoDreaming up a creative photo shoot project for my websites that is giving me goosebumps just thinking about it. Finding ways to channel the archetypes far more than skin deep… Creating images of power, vulnerability, ecstasy, and the sexual version of the hero’s journey… images that reflect the inner work of truly accessing our sexuality… art that calls to the core of heart, cock and cunt, not just tickles the eye…

Join my mailing list to find out when I post new pics.

-Artemisia de Vine-

Diamond pussy pic by Shane from Liquid Light Studios.

Nov 142013
 

FanAs a whore, I don’t want to be treated as a pretty pet to pass the time with.  I choose to be seen as the skilled practitioner in her sexual power and beauty who is capable of taking clients on erotic journeys and experiences into themselves… giving them a chance to feel what it is like to be with a sexually empowered and embodied woman.

Many whores I know are fiercely fabulous, self-aware, connected sexual beings.   The thing is, we are so limited in where we can advertise and get our message out there…  The brothels and the adult services directories frame sex work in a way that is counter to the above implying we are there to simply physical vessels to pleasure submissively… that we are an item on the menu…  sets of physical features with polite customer service formulaic conversational styles.

I see us as more akin to tango teachers and expert dance partners… part counsellor, part companion, part playmate, part sex educator, part priestess to guide you into the erotic mysteries…  Someone with a skill to share and respect.  I see myself as a representative of the archetypal woman,  who knows how to help you explore you inner world through sexual play.

Self discovery… Play… Pleasure…Comfort…. Holistic connection with our whole beings through sexual energy… 

Some advertising sites have done a semi effective job of countering the image that we are merely physical bodies with submissive, pre-scripted phrases but they still don’t quite get it right.  It’s still a case of us having to present ourselves within a framework that assumes certain values and ways of being.   There is still internalized whorephobia and sexism coded into the framework that disadvantages clients and sexuality professionals alike.

Imagine how much would change if we re-framed that whole culture of representation.   What if we choose to think of a whore as a sexual life coach who you approach with respect because they are an expert in their field?  Or a holistic companion to engage with you on all levels?  Then perhaps you can consciously negotiate sexual power roles together… Maybe she or he is more than happy to be the sexual submissive on their knees to please and treat you like royalty… Maybe she or he prefers to be the one who takes the lead and guide you to pleasing them… Or guide you to discovering aspects of yourself you didn’t know were there… Either way is fine.  There is the world of difference in being a sexually submissive woman when that role is consciously negotiated compared to when it is just assumed that all female whores are sexually submissive and subservient.

I draw to me clients who think along those lines.  Many men truly adore women and are respectful, genuine clients who are delighted to discover what is possible down the erotic rabbit hole but the culture of industry itself  makes it hard for them too.  The way we frame sex work needs to change so we can all access juicier play.

Jun 222013
 

Artemisia glamI sit all my clients down on the couch for a chat before we begin a conscious sexuality session of any kind be it an escort, erotic massage, erotic ritual, kinky session or a lesson in deeper pleasure. I say, “Tell me why you are here. What do you *really* want to experience? You were drawn to have a session with me because… Why? What are you hoping will happen? If you were to leave here saying “Wow! That was a fantastic session I really had an amazing experience!” what would have happened to make you feel that way?”

They don’t just describe the physical activities they hope for or the parts of my body they are attracted to… We get into a discussion that allows them to explore what they *really* want deep inside. We then discuss where I am willing and able to meet them and where I can’t. We set boundaries, create safe space where we both agree to explore and the session begins from a conscious place.

This makes the session a lot more satisfying for both of us. It shifts it from being a routine experience to something more real and potent. We get to actually engage as holistic sexual beings not just bodies. – Artemisia de Vine

Mar 172013
 

FanOne can listen to music while bopping around doing the chores and feel energised and pleasurable. It’s fun, good for you and healthy. However to consciously engage with music takes it to another level again. To give each note your full attention and feel each note fill and move your body, your emotions and indeed your whole being can take you to another world. You can become one with the music. Your mind stops chattering and your ego takes a back seat… You can more deeply connect with your authenticity, embodied wisdom and personal bliss.

One can apply this same principle to the full spectrum of erotic arts: from erotic massage to sex to BDSM and much more. I specialise in sessions and workshops that focus on the techniques to more deeply engage in our sexuality. Sex is already great. To learn techniques drawn from tantra, Taoism, sexological bodywork, mindfulness and body-mind therapies to more consciously engage with it, takes it to another level again. This doesn’t just apply to the “making love” style of erotic intimacy but to all aspects of our erotic wiring including those forbidden and completely politically incorrect fantasies and consensual power play games.

Sex, like emotion, is a primal force within us that has one foot in the conscious mind and one in the subconscious. It’s not about linear logic… It speaks a different language… the language of dreams. This can be scary. We’ve all encountered people who are in an aroused state of consciousness and yet they are being unconsciously driven by it rather than consciously engaging with it and it can feel really unpleasant and invasive.

We can engage with our anger consciously or let it control us like a bush fire… same with sexuality. This doesn’t lesson the pleasure, oh no! Conscious sexuality, without a doubt, magnifies all that we hold dear about our eroticism.

When BDSM and/or sex is engaged consciously, we access our most authentic personal expression and become fully present in each moment. Remarkable experiences can happen from this place. It is different from session to session depending on intent, unique erotic wiring of participants and the mood on the day. Outcomes can be any of the following:

* An experience of deeper, whole being, erotic pleasure
* Connecting and flowing in companionship and playfulness
* Healing
* Personal transformation
* Deeper intimacy
* A journey of self discovery
* Ecstatic states of consciousness

All workshops and sessions operate from a place of consent and respect with an intent to engage even more of our erotic potential. To achieve this we need trust and healthy boundaries. For this purpose there is a free consultation before each session to establish this.

So why have I used the word “conscious” instead of “spiritual”? Even though I identify as a spiritual sexual being, I think that sometimes people are put off by the spiritual language commonly used when talking about tantra.  I certainly don’t identify with a lot of the meaning placed on tantric experience by others. However I have found that the techniques and experiences themselves are potent and powerful no matter your worldview. It is relevant to people who identify as non spiritual and spiritual alike. All you need is a willingness to engage more consciously and fully with your unique erotic wiring and expression. If this appeals to you then these sessions are for you.

I see my work as an outpouring of passion that has stemmed from my own personal journey. My explorations and adventures have led to many insights and discoveries that have helped me to move beyond our cultural wide sex-shame epidemic and into a mind blowing and authentic relationship with my own eroticism. This passion has manifested in professionally facilitating and engaging with other people’s explorations in this arena. Primarily this includes taking one on one sessions as a Dominatrix (and occasional switch), Erotic bodyworker (massage), Somatic sex educator and Erotic ritualist. I also occasionally offer sessions as an Erotic Companion (private escort).

 For those interested in the conscious exploration of kink and BDSM, please see my other site, Conscious Kink, here.

Mar 112013
 

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Erotic Massage, Tantra Massage, Kinky bodywork, Erotic awakening Bodywork, Toaist Erotic Massage

Hot oil… soft, soft G cup breasts… exquisite, sensual full body skin on skin touch… surrender to the pleasure of highly skilled touch…

My sessions are far more than a “rub and tug”. These sessions are for those that truly want to delve into their eroticism and tantalise the whole being. These sessions suit those that wish to surrender to full being pleasure, explore deeper and discover even more. I offer 5 types of erotic massage/sessions as well as tantric sessions for those who wish to increase pleasure and skill.