Nov 112014
 

My lovers bottomClient nervous about prostate massage: “I dunno, it just doesn’t seem right. It’s the poo shute. God made it for waste to come out, not for things to go in.”

Me: “You do realise that you wee out of your penis right? Waste comes out the same passage that cum does… clearly God doesn’t mind mixing the two. Seems to me he is a fan of multi-purpose design.”

Sep 162014
 

Artemisia nude escort CEAIt gives me such a warm glow helping others explore their sexuality.  My client this afternoon was a middle-aged business man from Amercia.  He arrived at my door, straight from Sydney airport, nervous but keen to explore the erogenous potential of the male g-spot.  He had tried a few times before but had not achieved the pleasure he had read was possible from anal and prostate massage.  After reading why my anal massages are so popular he decided it was worth trying a booking with me.

Midway through the experience, all his shy reserve was gone and he was moaning and exclaiming, “This is incredible!  I’ve never felt anything like this before!”

At the end I asked him what his experience was like.  He replied, “I didn’t feel as though I had erogenous zones, I felt like I was one big erogenous zone!”  

My lovers bottomI asked if he had experienced anal orgasm before?  “No this was the first time.  I was felt it several times during that massage.  Incredible feeling!”

He also gave me the feedback, “This was a lot of money for me but  5 minutes in I had the sense that this was a sound investment.  You delivered exactly what you said you would on your website and in person.  You represent yourself accurately.  You listened to what I wanted and gave it to me.”

My style is quite different.  I see the sexual experience as so much more than physical acts and correct technique.  I aim  to facilitate an erotic journey inside my clients that takes into account their whole being.   I use a combination of techniques from sexological bodywork, tantra, lomilomi, Taoism and some I have invented myself from years of helping men explore their g-spots.   It is quite a unique session.

To read more about the types of scenarios possible  see my succulent array of erotic massages here.

Artemisia de Vine

Artemisia de Vine

About the Author:  Artemisia de Vine is a Sydney-based, plus-size Goddess with a greedy appreciation for the erotic arts from the sensual to perverse:  Escort, Erotic Massage Practitioner, BDSM specialist, Mistress, Switch and Spanko. See her websites for the  Sensual through to the Kinky (BDSM).  You can follow her on twitter or subscribe to her mailing list for erotic tips, tours and updates.

 

Feb 252014
 

erotic massage banner sydneyMy anal and prostate erotic massage sessions are highly skilled and specialised and include full body, hot oil, skin on skin lomilomi to deeply relax you.  They are the ultimate indulgence for long time anal pleasure enthusiasts and curious beginners alike.

If you want to skip straight to how to book, see here… If you’d like to read more about what makes my massages so famous and exquisite, see below.

Why Lomilomi is the perfect compliment to sensual Anal play

Lomilomi is present, deeply sensual, heart centred touch that is designed to override the left and right hemispheres of the mind.  This aids in letting go of your chattering mind so you can become one with the erotic sensations of pleasure.   It’s the perfect complement as it is really important to be deeply relaxed for anal play.

My lovers bottomWe have Two Anal sphincters 

Your anus has two sphincters at the opening.  The outside one you can consciously squeeze and release at will.  Try it now.  See?  The second sphincter, just inside has the first is a different kettle of fish.  You have no conscious control over it.  If you place a finger just inside your anaus you will feel the second sphincter pulse but you can’t control whether it relaxes or not.  It’s this sphincter that hurts if someone just rushes on in before you are ready.

Teasing and Seducing you Open

In order to get that second sphincter to relax you need to relax all over.  I teach you a breathing technique used in tantra specifically designed to help you deeply relax while being aroused.  It is highly effective, especially in conjunction with lomilomi.

Using this breath while being touched all over in a deeply sensual way,  you enter a beautiful, floaty, dreamy state that allows your arousal to float all through you.  Your blood is more oxygenated helping to spread sensation throughout your whole being, rather than only focusing in the genital area.   Don’t fret!  Your cock will get plenty of attention too! I use a special tantric technique called a lingham massage that includes lots of different cock strokes designed to bring pleasure without tipping you over the edge before the end.

Onc eyou are both aroused and relaxed, I  then thoroughly massage your anal area externally, teasing, building tension and pleasure… before gently entering you.  I don’t force anything.   This is a no pain method.  I gently massage that second sphincter and I only enter when you body invites me to enter.

Artemisia de Vine

Artemisia de Vine

The Art of Prostate Massage

Once you are open I begin massaging internally.  Your prostate is the male G spot and like the female G spot it can be quite illusive.  It actually feels different at different levels of arousal.  This means that once you are aroused it is going to feel a whole lot different to when you doctor examines you!  It also means that you will experience changing sensations through your G spot during your massage.

Each person is different and enjoys different types of strokes… tapping, rubbing, thrusting, rolling… Some prefer vigorous in and out motion and others prefer much more of a gentle, circular motion.  I take the time to explore this with you so you can discover just what kind of pleasure your prostate is capable of and what works best for you.

I have learned the art of anal massage from Joseph Kramer himself who is world-renowned as a leader in teaching the most exquisite of anal pleasures.

erotic massage Sydney busty blonde plussize prostate CEAMindful Embodiment and Erotic Trance

Anal massage is one of the most relaxing forms of arousal.  It’s not that urgent needy arousal that is cock-centred.  Instead it builds slower but deeper, and spreads out further through your body.  With practice, it can lead to a kind of erotic trance.  You are still in full control, but like in meditation, your mind stops chattering and you become one with the sensations.   It’s a form of embodied, mindful erotic experience where you are noticing every little sensation.

With some practice and a few more tantric techniques, you can learn to enter into aroused ecstatic states of consciousness too.

Anal Orgasm

Some people can orgasm from anal stimulation alone.  It is a different kind of orgasm that doesn’t necessarily include ejaculation but rather ripples through you like a slow motion bass drum.  Just as female bodies can have clitoris-centric orgasms and G spot orgasms (and many other kinds), so can male bodies.  It takes experience, patience and deep relaxation to achieve though you will notice the pleasure leading in that direction on your first massage.  Some lucky people achieve anal orgasms first try!

Tantric Genital Massage

My massages also include lots of delicious tantric cock & ball massage techniques and you do have an opportunity to climax if that is what you would like.  Some choose not to ejaculate but instead use Taoist technique to have a sort of internal orgasm, spreading the arousal around inside without losing any of it or experiencing a “drop” like you do after an external ejaculation.

Artemisia de Vine

Artemisia de Vine

What happens in a session?

My sessions are far more than just a rub and tug.  They are a whole being experience.  From the moment you enter my lush play space  you are welcomed with a exotic tea and nibbles, made to feel comfortable and taught skills needed to explore your anal pleasure even deeper.   You then have an unhurried, luxurious time on the table where you are free to open up and be your true erotic self.

For this reason, my sessions are a minimum of 90mins and ideally 2 hours.  Details here…

From Finger to Anal Fisting

These sessions suit beginners and anal enthusiasts alike.  I offer sessions from finger to fisting and can include toys if that is what you body is ready for.   If you are more interested in pegging, you may be interested in my blog Let’s Talk Strap Ons: Discover your Pegging Style. 

dominatrix strap on 1I heard you also do a Kinky version of this?

Yes youheard right!  I am also very experienced in kink play and have a whole other side to me.   If you would like to see my Kinky Massage for beginners See here… I  have developed a tie and tease version of the above massage where you are blind folded and tied to the table.  When you take away one sense, the others are all ignited, alert and alive…  This session is still sensual but it is a feast of the senses.  It allows for various types of kinky explorations… you can include anal play or not, it’s up to you… Perhaps some light spanking… unexpected sensations… your excitement builds as you don’t know what is going to happen next and you have no choice but to lie back and receive.

If you want to see my much more full on, BDSM & kink website its here…

Where are you located and do you tour?

I am based in Glebe, Sydney but frequently tour Canberra and Melbourne.  I may make it to other capital cites too so please do join my mailing list to find out when I am in your area.

Sounds Great!  Where do I sign up?
Session details here…   But please also take the time to read the reviews from previous clients below.

Artemisia de Vine

Artemisia de Vine

Reviews from Previous Clients

“Just a huge thank you again for so generously indulging me in your tender arm and hands (and more) this morning. It was a beautifully unique and blissful experience. I walked around all day with an enormous smile on my face. Mmmm. Can’t wait to see you again. It was really very special. You have unique skills and I’m so glad you share them. One happy Sydney guy.” -Erotic massage/girlfriend experience deluxe combo

“so, finding myself with some spare time and in need of some creative relaxation, i found myself drawn to artemisia’s website (then avika). Luckily for me she could see me at an agreeable time,and so arrangements were made. She styles herself as offering a premium erotic massage, and that is completely delivered. In looks she is rubenesque, in manner she is both charming and forthright, and her massage is both relaxing, and ultimately wildly erotic. If you want a supermodel pretending to care while focussing on the clock, go elsewhere. Artemisia is a voluptuous provider of erotic pleasure, and clearly enjoys what she does. Ill be back. Cheers. N (43 yrs)”

“That was unbelievable!  I have no words.  You are an erotic choreographer.  I really have no words”. – G Sydney 2013

“I’m just coming off the high from the other day… you can put this on your website. I had the pleasure to spend an hour of absolute bliss with this lady, she took me on a journey that I hadn’t been before an felt like I could touch the sky, it was a great experience and one that I would love to experience again.” ‘D’ – Cairns 2012

“SO much more than a rub and tug. I feel like I’ve finally been touched the way I always wanted to be touched but never knew I wanted if that makes sense? If you want a cheap rub an tug, go somewhere else. If you want someone who can take you to places for real, go see Artemisia”. Ron – 2012 Cairns

“I can honestly say that I got so much more than I expected. I didn’t know I could feel that way” – Ben 38yo South Australia 2012

“Best. Massage. EVER. You can quote me on that”. Greg, Byron Bay 2011

“I used to be a professional masseur and I can tell you that Artemisia’s (sessions) are a rare treat. Her touch is so soft and sensual. She really knows what she’s doing” – Surfer Matt, Lismore 2011

“I had the need and went to visit Artemisia (was Avika) for a bit of relief but got so much more than that. I dunno how to say really. She’s something special this one”. – Arron 50 Melbourne 2010

“Artemisia my dear, I have never had anyone put so much effort and feeling into their service! Some ladies charge a premium for their service and its hardly worth it. You are worth every penny.” Rob 57, Cairns 2012

“Having known Artemisia for several years I was intrigued when she started offering erotic massages, but felt her descriptions gave me little idea what to expect. Now having had one I think that is because they are almost beyond description. What I can say is that if you are just chasing pleasure with a beautiful woman you will have a fine time, but have plenty of choices elsewhere. If you want to learn new things about yourself, about sex and joy and how you can experience your body in new ways you may never have imagined then Artemisia offers all that, and you may have trouble finding it elsewhere.” – Stephen, Scientist, 42, Melbourne, 2012

 

“Artemisia is an important part of the sexual revolution, it is an honor to know her. I like the fact that she has respect for herself, and respect for her clients, and won’t accept people who can’t play by both those rules. In doing so, she sets up a far more meaningful, pleasurable and holistic exchange. I think this is what the world is really lusting for, and Artemisia is the perfect person to be in that role. I love hearing about how she takes the time to genuinely connect with people, and stay with them on their journey of sexual discovery. And the way she finds beauty, wherever it may be hiding. Engage her intellectually and you will pleased on many levels! Finally, as a sex-positive educator and pro kinkster, she knows everything there is to know about subjects that most people have never heard of. Highly recommended!” – Chris Even

 

 

 

 

 

Feb 232014
 

 

Artemisia de Vine EM Prof logoHi, my name is Artemisia de Vine and I am a professional dominatrix, switch and domestic discipline spankee.   I also offer top shelf, exquisitely sensual, erotic massages and other types of intimate erotic sessions including conscious sexuality sessions.

This sometimes confuses people.  Those that want to be held and nurtured fear that my kinky side negates my ability to also be sensual and loving .  Those that are wired to want a dominatrix to take full, merciless control doubt my ability to pull that off if I also offer lush sensual sessions.

Sex and/or BDSM are not merely a set of acts but are rather a place we go inside ourselves and a journey into erotic consciousness we share together. 

Here’s the thing.  All of the above sessions are aiming to get to the same place.  In all the above scenarios we are aiming to build tension and then let go and fully open to our erotic experience…  To enter into that illusive but divine state of being that allows the “talking mind” to stop chattering… to be fully in the moment… embodied… exquisite surrender… washed over with sensations…

More important than any act performed, it’s a place within us we really crave to enter.  It’s primarily a state of consciousness.  Everything else is just a means to get us there.

This is one of the main reasons I chose to call myself a Conscious Erotic Arts Practitioner.  While the kinds of sessions I offer are broad, they all have one thing in common.

I am a specialist in Erotic States of Consciousness. 

We are all aiming for that mystical magical place within us whether we are aware of it or not.  Really at the heart of it we are searching for more than the physical release of an orgasm.  The truly mind-blowing erotic experiences include our whole being… mind, body, heart and that illusive thing many call soul…  They are mind blowing because of the state of consciousness our minds and bodies enter into.

However, each of us is wired uniquely so each person is going to need to explore a different way of getting there.   What interests me is working out the puzzle each client presents.  I thrive on working out what is going to be the best kind of play for them at this particular point in time.

For some it is an overty sexual or “horny” feeling and for others it is primarily about power play and release.  All of it falls under the category of eroticism to me as I use eroticism to mean “eros”… the creative life force that pumps through our veins and motivates us in all sorts of conscious and not so conscious ways.   The point is, each person is unique in how they access this within themselves.

 

Erotic play and meditation have a lot in common. 

Recently science has caught up with knowledge us kinksters have known for ages.  Kink is the new yoga.  It has all the benefits of meditating and exercising.  Kinksters often report feeling calm and blissful after play like their system has been re-booted.  They often report insights into themselves and a feeling of connectedness with themselves and others.

However, it is not just kink that can have that effect on us… It’s not just pain or power play… it’s sensual pleasure too… Tantra practitioners, Taoists and various other erotic esoteric traditions have been pointing to the potential sexuality has to access profound states of being for thousands of years.

Most of us stumble across the amazing potential sexuality has to access profound and sometimes life altering states of consciousness at some point.  Or we at least touch on it… and have a sense there is something more if only we could just get the right set of circumstances together…  Maybe we think we need to be in limerence (that fresh new honey moon in-loveness) in order to access it… Perhaps we are waiting for the right lover…

The truth is, while having a lover who is on the same page as you really helps, there are skills we can learn within ourselves that make the likelihood of reaching these ecstatic, erotic states far more likely, far more often, whether we are in a romantic relationship or not.   We really don’t need to rely on the temporary high of being newly in love to access this delicious and precious part of ourselves.

 

The conscious erotic arts are about intentionally cultivating these states of being within ourselves. 

The more aware we are about our own unique erotic wiring… the more we develop a deeper relationship with our inner workings… the more conscious we are about it… the further we can go into each experience.

This is not something I can do to someone any more than a tango teacher can do the tango to someone.  It is something that can be cultivated however. It also helps considerably to have an experienced play partner whose intention is to create all the right circumstances to enhance potential erotic states of being and experience.   It also helps to learn the steps from someone who has danced them many times…  Again like the experienced tango teacher…

My role is to guide people into the skills needed to cultivate this way of approaching our eroticism be it kinky or sensual.  My sessions include consultations to help each person work out their unique wiring.  Together we design a series of play sessions that allow that person to explore their holistic erotic potential in a way that compliments their individual journey.

For some that may be receiving a series of lush full being erotic massages that allow them to just lie back and receive while practicing the techniques I’ve taught them… to enter deeper erotic states of consciousness…  to let go, surrender the ego and soar…

For others this may be an intense power exchange session where I am a sadistic bitch from hell and they have no choice but to surrender to the moment…  sometimes this leads to state of consciousness kinksters call “subspace” where the sense of time passing is distorted as each moment becomes an eternity yet nothing at the same time… where the ego lets go… the chattering mind ceases.. often accompanied by ecstatic, heart opening bliss…

Are you seeing the common link here?  Surrender… letting go of the ego… letting a different, wiser part of ourselves take the drivers seat… A part of us that feel connected as though we are all One…

Like in meditation, the ego doesn’t like giving up the driver’s seat… it will trick us in any way it can to try to hold onto control.  Each person will need a different way of approaching their eroticism in order to flick that switch that allows them to let go.  Some need to feel super safe, held and nurtured while others like the illusion of another person in control forcing them to let go.  Sometimes we need to role play in whatever way is necessary to get something deep inside our unconscious to surrender.

When we do get to that state of being it is exquisite… for many it is a spiritual experience… utterly divine… and has all the same benefits as meditation or yoga only with the added benefit of arousal.  Can’t complain about that right!

The point is that when I take on these different roles, dominatrix, switch, spankee, sensual lover, massage practitioner… I am doing so after a thorough consultation process where we both agree to take on the role necessary to aid the person going on the erotic journey.

Does that mean that I am just acting?

Am I just pretending to be a sadistic bitch or a loving erotic nurturer or a bratty spankee?  Does that mean I am not a “real” Mistress?

No, it doesn’t.  All aspects I offer are naturally within me.  I only offer to play roles that are really part of me.  I am just really good at drawing on them at will.  Within me dwell the full spectrum of personality archetypes… in you too… it is a skill to learn how to draw on them at will and one that I am quite practiced at if I do say so myself ;)

 

This sounds great!  How do I learn these skills?

If you are interested in exploring how to do this, sign up to my mailing lists through the websites listed below to find out about upcoming workshops.  You may be particularly interested in my workshop on “Embracing Erotic Shadows through Role Play”.  Alternatively you can contact me to discuss a personalised series of sessions that allow you to explore you unique wiring.   One of sessions give you a good test taste of this potential but it really is a journey so those that opt to invest in their erotic self discovery and personal sexual development benefit most from a series of sessions.

Despite the common thread between all my sessions, those seeking sensual conscious sexuality and erotic massage sessions prefer not to be exposed to my darker kinky personalities… and vise versa.  To respect that, I have two different websites.  One is for those who wish to explore Conscious Kink and the other is for those who want to explore the more Sensual Conscious Erotic Arts.

However I personally don’t see a conflict.  Both sites represent the real me. I am  following my natural inclinations.  This  sometimes means engaging sensually and intimately and sometimes means explore my perverse power play lust… or sometimes just playing spanking games for the fun of it.  It’s all me.  When playing with another I search for the place where we naturally overlap and create a session within that space.

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Dec 032013
 
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Artemisia de Vine

It’s always so lovely to get feedback from my clients.  I especially love working and playing with those on a journey of erotic awakening who are open and willing to explore and discover just what is possible.   After a consulation together P and I decided on an erotic lomilomi massage based session with drawing on aspects of tantra and kink.   P had already seen a three of my friends and colleagues who also approach sexuality from a conscious or tantric perspective.  We all approach things in our own unique way and have learned from some of the world’s conscious sexuality pioneers. He had learned a lot from them and it was time to explore something new.  This is what he had to say.

“I’ve been on a Tantra discovery journey during 2013. On my Tantra journey, my research frequently spoke about this spiritual massage referred to as Lomi Lomi, which I understand comes from the Hawaiian culture, so it was of interest to receive a great recommendation from the incredible Zoe Montana that Artemisia de Vine, was the Mistress of Lomi Lomi practitioners. Zoe warmly recommended and suggested making contact with Miss de Vine.

As chance had it, Miss de Vine was visiting and an appointment made after a preparatory conversation. After further exploring desired expectations before our session started, another talent of Tantra ladies was reinforced – they all listen and remember these personal discussions – I know this to be true because of the way they weave so much more into the sessions and experiences of the Tantra traveller. Artemisia did this very effectively during the very relaxing and oily Lomi Lomi massage – combined with some erotic kink play and a touch of spanking.

One of the many great experiences in my Tantra journey includes the generosity of spirit, skill and intelligent conversation provided by wonderful guides such as the thoughtful and elegant Olivia ~ Tantrawoman, the delightful and creative goddess Electra Amore, the gracious, accepting and sensual Zoe Montana and now the skilful artisan Artemisia de Vine. In all experiences from Olivia, Electra, Zoe and Artemisia – there is a great sense of pride in ensuring that the experiences they offer, are not just a standard formula of sensual pleasure. They all want to understand the expectations of the Tantric traveller and what they hope to achieve by sharing time together. On viewing the comprehensive web sites offered, the range of skills and experiences offered – but all hark back to the Tantra principles of breath and life.

 Thank you one and all ~ I regard you all so highly as trusted travel companions.

 My thanks to you Artemisia, I clearly enjoyed a wonderfully sensual and exhilarating experience enjoying  fully the skills, explanations, ideas and company that you shared.” – P

 

Jun 222013
 

Artemisia glamI sit all my clients down on the couch for a chat before we begin a conscious sexuality session of any kind be it an escort, erotic massage, erotic ritual, kinky session or a lesson in deeper pleasure. I say, “Tell me why you are here. What do you *really* want to experience? You were drawn to have a session with me because… Why? What are you hoping will happen? If you were to leave here saying “Wow! That was a fantastic session I really had an amazing experience!” what would have happened to make you feel that way?”

They don’t just describe the physical activities they hope for or the parts of my body they are attracted to… We get into a discussion that allows them to explore what they *really* want deep inside. We then discuss where I am willing and able to meet them and where I can’t. We set boundaries, create safe space where we both agree to explore and the session begins from a conscious place.

This makes the session a lot more satisfying for both of us. It shifts it from being a routine experience to something more real and potent. We get to actually engage as holistic sexual beings not just bodies. – Artemisia de Vine

Mar 112013
 

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Hot oil… soft, soft G cup breasts… exquisite, sensual full body skin on skin touch… surrender to the pleasure of highly skilled touch…

My sessions are far more than a “rub and tug”. These sessions are for those that truly want to delve into their eroticism and tantalise the whole being. These sessions suit those that wish to surrender to full being pleasure, explore deeper and discover even more. I offer 5 types of erotic massage/sessions as well as tantric sessions for those who wish to increase pleasure and skill.

Mar 112013
 
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