Feb 252014
 

erotic massage banner sydneyMy anal and prostate erotic massage sessions are highly skilled and specialised and include full body, hot oil, skin on skin lomilomi to deeply relax you.  They are the ultimate indulgence for long time anal pleasure enthusiasts and curious beginners alike.

If you want to skip straight to how to book, see here… If you’d like to read more about what makes my massages so famous and exquisite, see below.

Why Lomilomi is the perfect compliment to sensual Anal play

Lomilomi is present, deeply sensual, heart centred touch that is designed to override the left and right hemispheres of the mind.  This aids in letting go of your chattering mind so you can become one with the erotic sensations of pleasure.   It’s the perfect complement as it is really important to be deeply relaxed for anal play.

My lovers bottomWe have Two Anal sphincters 

Your anus has two sphincters at the opening.  The outside one you can consciously squeeze and release at will.  Try it now.  See?  The second sphincter, just inside has the first is a different kettle of fish.  You have no conscious control over it.  If you place a finger just inside your anaus you will feel the second sphincter pulse but you can’t control whether it relaxes or not.  It’s this sphincter that hurts if someone just rushes on in before you are ready.

Teasing and Seducing you Open

In order to get that second sphincter to relax you need to relax all over.  I teach you a breathing technique used in tantra specifically designed to help you deeply relax while being aroused.  It is highly effective, especially in conjunction with lomilomi.

Using this breath while being touched all over in a deeply sensual way,  you enter a beautiful, floaty, dreamy state that allows your arousal to float all through you.  Your blood is more oxygenated helping to spread sensation throughout your whole being, rather than only focusing in the genital area.   Don’t fret!  Your cock will get plenty of attention too! I use a special tantric technique called a lingham massage that includes lots of different cock strokes designed to bring pleasure without tipping you over the edge before the end.

Onc eyou are both aroused and relaxed, I  then thoroughly massage your anal area externally, teasing, building tension and pleasure… before gently entering you.  I don’t force anything.   This is a no pain method.  I gently massage that second sphincter and I only enter when you body invites me to enter.

Artemisia de Vine

Artemisia de Vine

The Art of Prostate Massage

Once you are open I begin massaging internally.  Your prostate is the male G spot and like the female G spot it can be quite illusive.  It actually feels different at different levels of arousal.  This means that once you are aroused it is going to feel a whole lot different to when you doctor examines you!  It also means that you will experience changing sensations through your G spot during your massage.

Each person is different and enjoys different types of strokes… tapping, rubbing, thrusting, rolling… Some prefer vigorous in and out motion and others prefer much more of a gentle, circular motion.  I take the time to explore this with you so you can discover just what kind of pleasure your prostate is capable of and what works best for you.

I have learned the art of anal massage from Joseph Kramer himself who is world-renowned as a leader in teaching the most exquisite of anal pleasures.

erotic massage Sydney busty blonde plussize prostate CEAMindful Embodiment and Erotic Trance

Anal massage is one of the most relaxing forms of arousal.  It’s not that urgent needy arousal that is cock-centred.  Instead it builds slower but deeper, and spreads out further through your body.  With practice, it can lead to a kind of erotic trance.  You are still in full control, but like in meditation, your mind stops chattering and you become one with the sensations.   It’s a form of embodied, mindful erotic experience where you are noticing every little sensation.

With some practice and a few more tantric techniques, you can learn to enter into aroused ecstatic states of consciousness too.

Anal Orgasm

Some people can orgasm from anal stimulation alone.  It is a different kind of orgasm that doesn’t necessarily include ejaculation but rather ripples through you like a slow motion bass drum.  Just as female bodies can have clitoris-centric orgasms and G spot orgasms (and many other kinds), so can male bodies.  It takes experience, patience and deep relaxation to achieve though you will notice the pleasure leading in that direction on your first massage.  Some lucky people achieve anal orgasms first try!

Tantric Genital Massage

My massages also include lots of delicious tantric cock & ball massage techniques and you do have an opportunity to climax if that is what you would like.  Some choose not to ejaculate but instead use Taoist technique to have a sort of internal orgasm, spreading the arousal around inside without losing any of it or experiencing a “drop” like you do after an external ejaculation.

Artemisia de Vine

Artemisia de Vine

What happens in a session?

My sessions are far more than just a rub and tug.  They are a whole being experience.  From the moment you enter my lush play space  you are welcomed with a exotic tea and nibbles, made to feel comfortable and taught skills needed to explore your anal pleasure even deeper.   You then have an unhurried, luxurious time on the table where you are free to open up and be your true erotic self.

For this reason, my sessions are a minimum of 90mins and ideally 2 hours.  Details here…

From Finger to Anal Fisting

These sessions suit beginners and anal enthusiasts alike.  I offer sessions from finger to fisting and can include toys if that is what you body is ready for.   If you are more interested in pegging, you may be interested in my blog Let’s Talk Strap Ons: Discover your Pegging Style. 

dominatrix strap on 1I heard you also do a Kinky version of this?

Yes youheard right!  I am also very experienced in kink play and have a whole other side to me.   If you would like to see my Kinky Massage for beginners See here… I  have developed a tie and tease version of the above massage where you are blind folded and tied to the table.  When you take away one sense, the others are all ignited, alert and alive…  This session is still sensual but it is a feast of the senses.  It allows for various types of kinky explorations… you can include anal play or not, it’s up to you… Perhaps some light spanking… unexpected sensations… your excitement builds as you don’t know what is going to happen next and you have no choice but to lie back and receive.

If you want to see my much more full on, BDSM & kink website its here…

Where are you located and do you tour?

I am based in Glebe, Sydney but frequently tour Canberra and Melbourne.  I may make it to other capital cites too so please do join my mailing list to find out when I am in your area.

Sounds Great!  Where do I sign up?
Session details here…   But please also take the time to read the reviews from previous clients below.

Artemisia de Vine

Artemisia de Vine

Reviews from Previous Clients

“Just a huge thank you again for so generously indulging me in your tender arm and hands (and more) this morning. It was a beautifully unique and blissful experience. I walked around all day with an enormous smile on my face. Mmmm. Can’t wait to see you again. It was really very special. You have unique skills and I’m so glad you share them. One happy Sydney guy.” -Erotic massage/girlfriend experience deluxe combo

“so, finding myself with some spare time and in need of some creative relaxation, i found myself drawn to artemisia’s website (then avika). Luckily for me she could see me at an agreeable time,and so arrangements were made. She styles herself as offering a premium erotic massage, and that is completely delivered. In looks she is rubenesque, in manner she is both charming and forthright, and her massage is both relaxing, and ultimately wildly erotic. If you want a supermodel pretending to care while focussing on the clock, go elsewhere. Artemisia is a voluptuous provider of erotic pleasure, and clearly enjoys what she does. Ill be back. Cheers. N (43 yrs)”

“That was unbelievable!  I have no words.  You are an erotic choreographer.  I really have no words”. – G Sydney 2013

“I’m just coming off the high from the other day… you can put this on your website. I had the pleasure to spend an hour of absolute bliss with this lady, she took me on a journey that I hadn’t been before an felt like I could touch the sky, it was a great experience and one that I would love to experience again.” ‘D’ – Cairns 2012

“SO much more than a rub and tug. I feel like I’ve finally been touched the way I always wanted to be touched but never knew I wanted if that makes sense? If you want a cheap rub an tug, go somewhere else. If you want someone who can take you to places for real, go see Artemisia”. Ron – 2012 Cairns

“I can honestly say that I got so much more than I expected. I didn’t know I could feel that way” – Ben 38yo South Australia 2012

“Best. Massage. EVER. You can quote me on that”. Greg, Byron Bay 2011

“I used to be a professional masseur and I can tell you that Artemisia’s (sessions) are a rare treat. Her touch is so soft and sensual. She really knows what she’s doing” – Surfer Matt, Lismore 2011

“I had the need and went to visit Artemisia (was Avika) for a bit of relief but got so much more than that. I dunno how to say really. She’s something special this one”. – Arron 50 Melbourne 2010

“Artemisia my dear, I have never had anyone put so much effort and feeling into their service! Some ladies charge a premium for their service and its hardly worth it. You are worth every penny.” Rob 57, Cairns 2012

“Having known Artemisia for several years I was intrigued when she started offering erotic massages, but felt her descriptions gave me little idea what to expect. Now having had one I think that is because they are almost beyond description. What I can say is that if you are just chasing pleasure with a beautiful woman you will have a fine time, but have plenty of choices elsewhere. If you want to learn new things about yourself, about sex and joy and how you can experience your body in new ways you may never have imagined then Artemisia offers all that, and you may have trouble finding it elsewhere.” – Stephen, Scientist, 42, Melbourne, 2012

 

“Artemisia is an important part of the sexual revolution, it is an honor to know her. I like the fact that she has respect for herself, and respect for her clients, and won’t accept people who can’t play by both those rules. In doing so, she sets up a far more meaningful, pleasurable and holistic exchange. I think this is what the world is really lusting for, and Artemisia is the perfect person to be in that role. I love hearing about how she takes the time to genuinely connect with people, and stay with them on their journey of sexual discovery. And the way she finds beauty, wherever it may be hiding. Engage her intellectually and you will pleased on many levels! Finally, as a sex-positive educator and pro kinkster, she knows everything there is to know about subjects that most people have never heard of. Highly recommended!” – Chris Even

 

 

 

 

 

Feb 232014
 

 

Artemisia de Vine EM Prof logoHi, my name is Artemisia de Vine and I am a professional dominatrix, switch and domestic discipline spankee.   I also offer top shelf, exquisitely sensual, erotic massages and other types of intimate erotic sessions including conscious sexuality sessions.

This sometimes confuses people.  Those that want to be held and nurtured fear that my kinky side negates my ability to also be sensual and loving .  Those that are wired to want a dominatrix to take full, merciless control doubt my ability to pull that off if I also offer lush sensual sessions.

Sex and/or BDSM are not merely a set of acts but are rather a place we go inside ourselves and a journey into erotic consciousness we share together. 

Here’s the thing.  All of the above sessions are aiming to get to the same place.  In all the above scenarios we are aiming to build tension and then let go and fully open to our erotic experience…  To enter into that illusive but divine state of being that allows the “talking mind” to stop chattering… to be fully in the moment… embodied… exquisite surrender… washed over with sensations…

More important than any act performed, it’s a place within us we really crave to enter.  It’s primarily a state of consciousness.  Everything else is just a means to get us there.

This is one of the main reasons I chose to call myself a Conscious Erotic Arts Practitioner.  While the kinds of sessions I offer are broad, they all have one thing in common.

I am a specialist in Erotic States of Consciousness. 

We are all aiming for that mystical magical place within us whether we are aware of it or not.  Really at the heart of it we are searching for more than the physical release of an orgasm.  The truly mind-blowing erotic experiences include our whole being… mind, body, heart and that illusive thing many call soul…  They are mind blowing because of the state of consciousness our minds and bodies enter into.

However, each of us is wired uniquely so each person is going to need to explore a different way of getting there.   What interests me is working out the puzzle each client presents.  I thrive on working out what is going to be the best kind of play for them at this particular point in time.

For some it is an overty sexual or “horny” feeling and for others it is primarily about power play and release.  All of it falls under the category of eroticism to me as I use eroticism to mean “eros”… the creative life force that pumps through our veins and motivates us in all sorts of conscious and not so conscious ways.   The point is, each person is unique in how they access this within themselves.

 

Erotic play and meditation have a lot in common. 

Recently science has caught up with knowledge us kinksters have known for ages.  Kink is the new yoga.  It has all the benefits of meditating and exercising.  Kinksters often report feeling calm and blissful after play like their system has been re-booted.  They often report insights into themselves and a feeling of connectedness with themselves and others.

However, it is not just kink that can have that effect on us… It’s not just pain or power play… it’s sensual pleasure too… Tantra practitioners, Taoists and various other erotic esoteric traditions have been pointing to the potential sexuality has to access profound states of being for thousands of years.

Most of us stumble across the amazing potential sexuality has to access profound and sometimes life altering states of consciousness at some point.  Or we at least touch on it… and have a sense there is something more if only we could just get the right set of circumstances together…  Maybe we think we need to be in limerence (that fresh new honey moon in-loveness) in order to access it… Perhaps we are waiting for the right lover…

The truth is, while having a lover who is on the same page as you really helps, there are skills we can learn within ourselves that make the likelihood of reaching these ecstatic, erotic states far more likely, far more often, whether we are in a romantic relationship or not.   We really don’t need to rely on the temporary high of being newly in love to access this delicious and precious part of ourselves.

 

The conscious erotic arts are about intentionally cultivating these states of being within ourselves. 

The more aware we are about our own unique erotic wiring… the more we develop a deeper relationship with our inner workings… the more conscious we are about it… the further we can go into each experience.

This is not something I can do to someone any more than a tango teacher can do the tango to someone.  It is something that can be cultivated however. It also helps considerably to have an experienced play partner whose intention is to create all the right circumstances to enhance potential erotic states of being and experience.   It also helps to learn the steps from someone who has danced them many times…  Again like the experienced tango teacher…

My role is to guide people into the skills needed to cultivate this way of approaching our eroticism be it kinky or sensual.  My sessions include consultations to help each person work out their unique wiring.  Together we design a series of play sessions that allow that person to explore their holistic erotic potential in a way that compliments their individual journey.

For some that may be receiving a series of lush full being erotic massages that allow them to just lie back and receive while practicing the techniques I’ve taught them… to enter deeper erotic states of consciousness…  to let go, surrender the ego and soar…

For others this may be an intense power exchange session where I am a sadistic bitch from hell and they have no choice but to surrender to the moment…  sometimes this leads to state of consciousness kinksters call “subspace” where the sense of time passing is distorted as each moment becomes an eternity yet nothing at the same time… where the ego lets go… the chattering mind ceases.. often accompanied by ecstatic, heart opening bliss…

Are you seeing the common link here?  Surrender… letting go of the ego… letting a different, wiser part of ourselves take the drivers seat… A part of us that feel connected as though we are all One…

Like in meditation, the ego doesn’t like giving up the driver’s seat… it will trick us in any way it can to try to hold onto control.  Each person will need a different way of approaching their eroticism in order to flick that switch that allows them to let go.  Some need to feel super safe, held and nurtured while others like the illusion of another person in control forcing them to let go.  Sometimes we need to role play in whatever way is necessary to get something deep inside our unconscious to surrender.

When we do get to that state of being it is exquisite… for many it is a spiritual experience… utterly divine… and has all the same benefits as meditation or yoga only with the added benefit of arousal.  Can’t complain about that right!

The point is that when I take on these different roles, dominatrix, switch, spankee, sensual lover, massage practitioner… I am doing so after a thorough consultation process where we both agree to take on the role necessary to aid the person going on the erotic journey.

Does that mean that I am just acting?

Am I just pretending to be a sadistic bitch or a loving erotic nurturer or a bratty spankee?  Does that mean I am not a “real” Mistress?

No, it doesn’t.  All aspects I offer are naturally within me.  I only offer to play roles that are really part of me.  I am just really good at drawing on them at will.  Within me dwell the full spectrum of personality archetypes… in you too… it is a skill to learn how to draw on them at will and one that I am quite practiced at if I do say so myself ;)

 

This sounds great!  How do I learn these skills?

If you are interested in exploring how to do this, sign up to my mailing lists through the websites listed below to find out about upcoming workshops.  You may be particularly interested in my workshop on “Embracing Erotic Shadows through Role Play”.  Alternatively you can contact me to discuss a personalised series of sessions that allow you to explore you unique wiring.   One of sessions give you a good test taste of this potential but it really is a journey so those that opt to invest in their erotic self discovery and personal sexual development benefit most from a series of sessions.

Despite the common thread between all my sessions, those seeking sensual conscious sexuality and erotic massage sessions prefer not to be exposed to my darker kinky personalities… and vise versa.  To respect that, I have two different websites.  One is for those who wish to explore Conscious Kink and the other is for those who want to explore the more Sensual Conscious Erotic Arts.

However I personally don’t see a conflict.  Both sites represent the real me. I am  following my natural inclinations.  This  sometimes means engaging sensually and intimately and sometimes means explore my perverse power play lust… or sometimes just playing spanking games for the fun of it.  It’s all me.  When playing with another I search for the place where we naturally overlap and create a session within that space.

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Aug 252013
 
Artemisia de Vine

Artemisia de Vine

Had a fabulous time in the sun today, sipping coffee and having book-gasms. That wonderful feeling when someone has put into words things you’ve been intuiting for years… It set off a riot of inspiring ideas inside me.

(In case you are curious I was reading ‘Inner Work: Using dreams and Active Imagination for Personal Growth’ by Robert A Johnson, a Jungian analyst).

Really, when it comes down to it, the most important focus of my life that guides all my other choices is the inner work of bringing the unconscious into conscious alignment. Sex and BDSM just happen to be my tools and what fabulous tools they make because they are natural gateways between the conscious and the unconscious aspects of us. Sexual states of consciousness open the way to the symbolic realms just like dreams do, only sex also brings it into the embodied experience. In that sense sex and bdsm are natural shamanic rituals.

Approaching sexuality with awareness has the potential to rip the fabric of our reality open and directly expose us to the most potent, authentic, powerful and precious moments possible. You know that vague feeling that something is missing? That there should be more to sex? To life? Conscious sexuality leads us home to fulfil that nameless yearning.

Being conscious about our sexuality is not just about having bigger, better orgasms, though that is often a side effect… No it is about aligning all aspects of ourselves with, well, ourselves… the part of ourselves we are normally unconscious of… which is a giant submerged iceberg… and creating an active feedback loop and dialogue between conscious and unconscious that ripples out into our whole lives, creating meaning, purpose and benefiting all around us in every aspect of existence.

I can’t see how anything else could be more important than consciously engaging with inner work. Some use dance and trance… others use religious ritual or yoga or meditation or art, and others still use sexuality and BDSM. It all has the potential to aim for the same purpose. To align the parts of us we are normally unconscious of but which nonetheless effect every aspect of our lives, with our conscious mind.

When conscious and unconscious are in alignment and then anchored in us through embodiment, we are no longer at war with ourselves and everything flows in the most profound way.

From this perspective, to be a conscious sexuality whore dominatrix is a modern-day shaman… S/he that holds the space and creates the rituals that unite that which is known and that which is unseen within us…  linking us to the collective unconscious across time and space.

But most people don’t know that is what they crave… They just know they want a fuck… or crave some fetish… I don’t try to intellectually teach them… I just show them.

Mar 172013
 

FanOne can listen to music while bopping around doing the chores and feel energised and pleasurable. It’s fun, good for you and healthy. However to consciously engage with music takes it to another level again. To give each note your full attention and feel each note fill and move your body, your emotions and indeed your whole being can take you to another world. You can become one with the music. Your mind stops chattering and your ego takes a back seat… You can more deeply connect with your authenticity, embodied wisdom and personal bliss.

One can apply this same principle to the full spectrum of erotic arts: from erotic massage to sex to BDSM and much more. I specialise in sessions and workshops that focus on the techniques to more deeply engage in our sexuality. Sex is already great. To learn techniques drawn from tantra, Taoism, sexological bodywork, mindfulness and body-mind therapies to more consciously engage with it, takes it to another level again. This doesn’t just apply to the “making love” style of erotic intimacy but to all aspects of our erotic wiring including those forbidden and completely politically incorrect fantasies and consensual power play games.

Sex, like emotion, is a primal force within us that has one foot in the conscious mind and one in the subconscious. It’s not about linear logic… It speaks a different language… the language of dreams. This can be scary. We’ve all encountered people who are in an aroused state of consciousness and yet they are being unconsciously driven by it rather than consciously engaging with it and it can feel really unpleasant and invasive.

We can engage with our anger consciously or let it control us like a bush fire… same with sexuality. This doesn’t lesson the pleasure, oh no! Conscious sexuality, without a doubt, magnifies all that we hold dear about our eroticism.

When BDSM and/or sex is engaged consciously, we access our most authentic personal expression and become fully present in each moment. Remarkable experiences can happen from this place. It is different from session to session depending on intent, unique erotic wiring of participants and the mood on the day. Outcomes can be any of the following:

* An experience of deeper, whole being, erotic pleasure
* Connecting and flowing in companionship and playfulness
* Healing
* Personal transformation
* Deeper intimacy
* A journey of self discovery
* Ecstatic states of consciousness

All workshops and sessions operate from a place of consent and respect with an intent to engage even more of our erotic potential. To achieve this we need trust and healthy boundaries. For this purpose there is a free consultation before each session to establish this.

So why have I used the word “conscious” instead of “spiritual”? Even though I identify as a spiritual sexual being, I think that sometimes people are put off by the spiritual language commonly used when talking about tantra.  I certainly don’t identify with a lot of the meaning placed on tantric experience by others. However I have found that the techniques and experiences themselves are potent and powerful no matter your worldview. It is relevant to people who identify as non spiritual and spiritual alike. All you need is a willingness to engage more consciously and fully with your unique erotic wiring and expression. If this appeals to you then these sessions are for you.

I see my work as an outpouring of passion that has stemmed from my own personal journey. My explorations and adventures have led to many insights and discoveries that have helped me to move beyond our cultural wide sex-shame epidemic and into a mind blowing and authentic relationship with my own eroticism. This passion has manifested in professionally facilitating and engaging with other people’s explorations in this arena. Primarily this includes taking one on one sessions as a Dominatrix (and occasional switch), Erotic bodyworker (massage), Somatic sex educator and Erotic ritualist. I also occasionally offer sessions as an Erotic Companion (private escort).

 For those interested in the conscious exploration of kink and BDSM, please see my other site, Conscious Kink, here.

Mar 112013
 
Artemisia de Vine

Artemisia de Vine

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