Dec 132014
 

artemisia escort plussize mature antiqueDon’t fancy spending Christmas by yourself?  Come and spend it nestled in the ample bosom of voluptuous (size 16), very busty (G cup), Sydney-based GFE escort, Artemisia de Vine.

A very Merry Christmas Gentlemen!

Indulge yourself in the ultimate Christmas present this year by spending time receiving erotic TLC with me.  Whether it is a playful couple of hours or the full overnight/Christmas day experience  there is nothing quite like the company of an attractive, friendly and warmly sexual woman.  Rubenesque curves and the maturity to know how to use them!

Artemisia profile pic 2014Do you have something on your sexual bucket list? I’m on both Santa’s naughty and nice lists… I am a diverse practitioner with a greedy appreciation for the deeply sensual right through to the outright kinky and design play sessions around the unique wiring of each individual play partner.

This Christmas I am in the mood to offer the ultimate girlfriend experience!
Time to be held in my soft bosom, stroked skin-on-skin and loved up. Let’s pleasure each other in my erotic oasis with a combination of fun sex games, erotic massage, hot & sensual sexy times, feasting and companionship!  Or perhaps you are more inclined to get your christmas kink on?  Let’s put our minds together and see if we can’t come up with something tailor-made for us.  It will be an awful lot of fun!

Here is a blog about what it is like on a GFE date with me.

Please also take the time to read what others have written about their time with me.

I am open your suggestions but here are some ideas to get your imagination whirring.

Lady spanked mirrorIMG_7257-2Delightful Dalliance: Would you like to spend a couple of hours being pampered? Perhaps one of my famous erotic massage sessions followed by play time in the bed?  The girlfriend experience is as much about companionship as it is about discovering each other’s steamy secrets.  It is about fun little sex games, permission to let the masks fall away and just be yourself… No need to slip into performance role, you have the chance to let go of goals and just explore the possibilities with an affectionate and playful lady.
$700 for 2 hrs
$1000 for 3hrs

Artemisia ecstatic conscious sexChristmas lunch and playtime: What a hedonistic feast!  Shall we stay in and eat off each other’s bodies or go out to one of the local restaurants for a gourmet affair only to return for play time and companionship here in my lush play space, The de Vinery?  We would need to pre-book pretty quick so please contact me asap if you would like the restaurant option. 6hrs $2000 (includes food & wine budget of up to $200)

Artemisia de Vine antique queen final logoOvernight Indulgence:  Spend the evening playing and sexploring then stay the night.  Either Christmas Eve or Christmas night.  A combination of playtime, affection and  companionship.  What will Santa bring you on Christmas morning?  Perhaps you’d like to take this opportunity to try something you’ve always wanted to.  $2500 from 7pm-10am  

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topless reclining

Santas Ultimate Gift!  Enjoy my company & seductive attentions from Christmas Eve till Christmas night. 24 hours of sensual affection and wickedly playful sex games.  The evening begins around 7 or 8pm on christmas eve, allowing time for us to enjoy some wine and nibbles together as well as sexy play time.  Spend the night snuggled up to my soft warm body and wake up to a Christmas surprise!   Breakfast provided.  Company and/or play time in the morning…then we can feast together for Christmas lunch either here at my play space or pre-book one of the local restaurants that are providing Christmas feasts.

Options for a relaxing afternoon with more play time if the mood strikes.  One of my famous hot oil erotic massages perhaps?  Or would you like to explore your kinky side?  Deeply sensual sexploration?  The evening ends 24 hours from when it began, spent and satisfied from tummy.  $4500 for 24 hours over Christmas

Pre-booking and 20% deposit required.   If you would like to explore my websites, see my sensual side here… and my BDSM side here…

Artemisia de Vine

Artemisia de Vine

More about me:
I am a voluptuous Goddess and elegant lady with a greedy appreciation for the full spectrum of erotic arts, from the deeply sensual through to the downright kinky.   I am an Erotic Massage specialist, GFE Escort and BDSM Mistress/switch.  I bring a depth and skill to my play that can only come from the confidence and experience of maturity.

I welcome older gentlemen who prefer the company of someone mature and young men who want to play with someone who knows what she is doing.  Whether you want to explore, learn, transform or just sink into my soft bossom and enjoy the company of a lady, there are sessions to suit you all.  Come into my oasis and treat yourself to some erotic TLC.
At a Glance:

Jun 082014
 

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“Artemisia looks like she has stepped out of an oil painting with her english rose complexion and womanly curves!  She is a Rubenesque Goddess who radiates warmth and sexual confidence in the way only a mature woman can.  I found her to not only be a delightfully sensual lover but also a fascinating companion.  She is an educated, classy and accomplished lady with a wicked streak.  She is bringing back the art of the courtesan while remaining really easy and comfortable to be with.  I could just be myself.”  – Brian 62yo, Sydney

“She is a heady mix of womanly curves and the friendly, flirty confidence that excites me.    If it is a skinny, young, super model you seek then go else where.  If it is an encounter with a real woman who knows what she is doing and is great to be with then I recommend spending an overnight with Artemisia.  She made me feel so alive and young again.”  – Mark 54yo, Canberra

Hello and welcome!

Artemisia escort divaMy name is Artemisia de Vine and I offer dinner dates and overnight girlfriend experience encounters to select discerning clients who enjoy the erotic company of an intelligent, curvy, woman in her late thirties.

Do you crave the touch of skin-on-skin and the delight of sinking into ample, silicon-free bosom?  Are you attracted to a voluptuous lady with soft, soft G cup breasts that jiggle when she laughs? Do you prefer the company of someone you can relax and be yourself with?

Do you find that you enjoy the erotic delights ever so much more if it is part of a date?  A chance to spend time getting to know each other and enjoy each other’s company, flirting, building tension over a meal together and then retiring to the bedroom to explore each other’s bodies?  Perhaps then falling asleep all snuggled up… only to be gently woken for lazy morning sex? Then perhaps what I offer is for you.

I have put together a list of answers to frequently asked questions you might find useful when deciding whether or not I am the right escort for you.

Artemisia de Vine antique queen final logoAt a Glance:

  •  Age: Late 30s.  A lady never tells… ;)
  • Height: 5”6 or 167cm without heels
  • Hair: Blonde, curly but occasionally straightened, bra strap length
  • Eyes: Green
  • Bust: Silicon-free G cup.
  • Dress size: 14-16

See Gallery here… 

What actually happens on a dinner date? 

Dinner dates are a mixture of company, sharing a meal and play time.

We meet at the hotel or restaurant of your choice just like any other date.  We spend time enjoying each other’s company for the length of a the meal and some friendly drinks.  There is plenty of time to flirt and discover each other without stifling clock watching pressure.  We can let arousal build and enjoy the anticipation.  I really enjoy this kind of booking because sex is so much more fulfilling for both of us if we have time to seduce each other.

We then retire to the hotel or return to my private, lush play space affectionately called “The DeVinery”.  Here we have a leisurely few hours to sexplore together.  We find where we naturally overlap and enjoy discovering each others bodies, secret turn ons and see what unfolds.   I can be deeply sensual and affectionate but also enjoy helping your explore your wild side.

Length of booking: 5hrs

Fee: $1700  (Meal and hotel provided by you.)

Lady spanked mirrorIMG_7257-2How is an overnight booking any different to a dinner date?

More time to let things unfold in the evening, spending the night snuggled up to my soft curves and being gently awoken for morning sex… and possibly breakfast together.  The rest is the same as the dinner date scenario… company, shared meal on a date, seduction…  Never underrate seduction!  The more levels of us that are involved in a sexual encounter the more satisfying it is.  Sex is not just about the physical acts but about the places we go inside ourselves and with each other.

This type of booking requires a minimum of 6hrs sleep time.  It is a mixture of company, play time and snuggles.

Length of booking: We can begin anytime from 7pm and enjoy each other’s company unhurried until 9:30-10 ish the next day.  The cost is the same even if you start later or finish earlier to fit around your schedule.  The point is I allow up to that much time for things to take their natural course.

Fee: $2500

Do you do longer bookings for trips?

Yes I do.  However we need to have seen each other before on a shorter booking to ensure that we are suitable play mates.   Trip rates can be negotiated together in private.

Artemisia de Vine

Artemisia de Vine

How about shorter bookings?

Yes you are most welcome to come and spend a couple of hours with me in The DeVinery.  I prefer booking lengths that allow us unhurried sexploration time.  I do occasionally offer 1 hr bookings but much prefer a minimum of 90mins-2hrs.  If we are going to do it, we need to do it properly.

1 hr $400
90mins $550

2 hr $700 

Special rates: negotiated for those who want a regular monthly (or more frequent) play date.  I only offer this once I have seen you at least once.

 Do you tour?

Yes!  My most common touring destinations are Melbourne, Canberra and hopefully Perth.  I am open to touring elsewhere if there are enough enquiries.  Please join my mailing list to receive discrete updates about tours as well as sexy pictures and erotica that I write.  I also publish the odd useful blog on how to explore even more pleasure in your sexuality.

wild hair escort Artemisia bustyI follow you on twitter and you talk a lot about kinky stuff and I am not into that, can we still play?  

I am a complex sexual being.  I sometimes like to explore my sensual side and other times like to explore my kinky side.  Sometimes I want pizza for dinner… sometimes I want a minestrone soup… sometimes a spicy curry…  I cannot be boxed into categories like “sensual” or “kinky” but have a greedy appreciation of the lot.

The thing all my sessions have in common is a desire to help you explore your unique erotic wiring, just the way it is.  Each of us has a unique erotic fingerprint.  No two lovers are the same.  With me, you can let the masks fall off and be exactly who you are.  We can have an honest chat on the phone before you book and see whether or not we have enough in common to be suitable playmates.

I’m kinky as all get out, can we do the girlfriend experience and be kinky too?

Possibly.  It depends on the scenario.  If I am in my Mistress or Dominatrix role, I do not have sex with my slaves or submissives.  It just doesn’t work for me.  However, if we are doing a kinky role play I may be up for it.  So ask me.  No harm in asking right?

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topless reclining

Do you do role play fantasies?

Oh yes I do!  Feel free to ask me what it is you really want to experience and I’ll be honest about whether or not that is something I can provide.  Some things I enjoy are role plays:

  • Teacher/Student
  • Boss/Employee
  • Age Play
  • Tie and Tease scenarios
  • And a whole variety of really creative scenarios… Email me your ideas and I’ll let you know…

I heard you do erotic massage can that be included in our evening?

Yes it can!  I am well-known for my erotic massages.  They are designed to drop you down deep into a blissful erotic state of consciousness, and I draw on tantra and other erotic embodiment techniques to make the experience so. much. more. than just a rub and tug.

However if you want this very special erotic massage, you will need to come to my space as I need certain equipment to make it work.  If this is a feature you particularly desire, then when I am on tour, make sure you ask me whether or not I have this with me before you book.

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What other sexual activities do you do?

I am very well-known for being fantastic at pegging (strap-on play) and have a wide variety of toys.  I have introduced many men to the joys of male G-spot massage over the years.  Pegging can be deeply sensual or naughty and dirty…  I wrote a blog to help you discover your pegging style on my other kink-centric website.  Check it out here…

There are also a lot of activities I am fond of but for discretion sake do not want to publicly list.  Please drop me an email and ask if there is something specific you are hoping for.  I negotiate activities from person to person depending on what feels right.  (That strap on pic is not me but the rest are all me).

Please note that all my play includes safe sex practices.  This is non negotiable.

 

Artemisia de Vine

Artemisia de Vine

You say “select” gentlemen, what criteria do I need to meet for you to accept a booking with me? 

It’s pretty simple, if you want to do something, I try to create the space for you to explore that, but you need to show respect and get consent first.

It is true that I do not accept everyone who applies for a play date with me.  However, you need not fear that I am judging you on your appearance, cultural background, age, dis(ability).  What is important to me is that we have a certain level of rapport and respect.  We need to be able to get along or it’s not going to be fun for either of us!  We can work out whether or not we would like a booking together by a chat on the phone.

Mutual respect is vital.  I treat you as the valuable human and sexual being you are.  I care for your well-being and strive to create valuable experiences that allows you to express your true sexual self.

Artemisia ecstatic conscious sexIn return, I expect to be approached in the same manner that you would a non paid date.   Acting like a gentleman is an absolute must on my criteria.  If you approach me in a crude or degrading way then no, I will not share my vulnerable sexual self with you.  If you want to play dirty games that include dirty talk then you need to negotiate that first, not just assume its ok to speak to me that way.  I might love it!  But only if it is consensual.

Cleanliness including oral hygiene is vitally important!

Do you see older gentlemen? 

Yes I do see older gents and very much enjoy mature company.  I see people from 18-100 and meet them where they are at.

What about younger men?

Yes for sure!  I am surprised and delighted to discover that now I am more mature, I am attracting lots of younger men who want to enjoy the sexual confidence of a mature woman.  I’m having a lot of fun in my cougar years!  Each age group has their appeal…

In your experience, what makes someone good at GFE

The girlfriend experience is about acknowledging that sex is more than just a physical act.  We are sexual beings body, mind and soul. Truly satisfying sexual play takes the time to unfold and drop the masks.  It is about including all levels of us in our play.  I believe that at our core we are all the same.  It is easy for me to see that when I look into a strangers eyes… So it’s not about play acting, but taking time to connect and create a moment together..   It’s about holding the safe space to draw out an aspect of us that needs to be expressed.

That could be a moment of affection and laughing companionship… It could be playfulness… It could be intense sensual surrender… It could be a profound moment of sexual realness…   It is what it is in the moment.

I am good at allowing you to be yourself.  I create a lush atmosphere where the rest of the world drops away and you can let your guards down.  Play time with me is about recharging on more than just a physical level.

Ok I’m interested, how can I apply for a date with you?

Great!  The best way to get a feel for each other is to have a chat on the phone.  If you are shy, you are welcome to start with an email enquiry but we will need to chat before we confirm the booking.   Contact me here…

 

Nov 142013
 

FanAs a whore, I don’t want to be treated as a pretty pet to pass the time with.  I choose to be seen as the skilled practitioner in her sexual power and beauty who is capable of taking clients on erotic journeys and experiences into themselves… giving them a chance to feel what it is like to be with a sexually empowered and embodied woman.

Many whores I know are fiercely fabulous, self-aware, connected sexual beings.   The thing is, we are so limited in where we can advertise and get our message out there…  The brothels and the adult services directories frame sex work in a way that is counter to the above implying we are there to simply physical vessels to pleasure submissively… that we are an item on the menu…  sets of physical features with polite customer service formulaic conversational styles.

I see us as more akin to tango teachers and expert dance partners… part counsellor, part companion, part playmate, part sex educator, part priestess to guide you into the erotic mysteries…  Someone with a skill to share and respect.  I see myself as a representative of the archetypal woman,  who knows how to help you explore you inner world through sexual play.

Self discovery… Play… Pleasure…Comfort…. Holistic connection with our whole beings through sexual energy… 

Some advertising sites have done a semi effective job of countering the image that we are merely physical bodies with submissive, pre-scripted phrases but they still don’t quite get it right.  It’s still a case of us having to present ourselves within a framework that assumes certain values and ways of being.   There is still internalized whorephobia and sexism coded into the framework that disadvantages clients and sexuality professionals alike.

Imagine how much would change if we re-framed that whole culture of representation.   What if we choose to think of a whore as a sexual life coach who you approach with respect because they are an expert in their field?  Or a holistic companion to engage with you on all levels?  Then perhaps you can consciously negotiate sexual power roles together… Maybe she or he is more than happy to be the sexual submissive on their knees to please and treat you like royalty… Maybe she or he prefers to be the one who takes the lead and guide you to pleasing them… Or guide you to discovering aspects of yourself you didn’t know were there… Either way is fine.  There is the world of difference in being a sexually submissive woman when that role is consciously negotiated compared to when it is just assumed that all female whores are sexually submissive and subservient.

I draw to me clients who think along those lines.  Many men truly adore women and are respectful, genuine clients who are delighted to discover what is possible down the erotic rabbit hole but the culture of industry itself  makes it hard for them too.  The way we frame sex work needs to change so we can all access juicier play.

Aug 252013
 
Artemisia de Vine

Artemisia de Vine

Had a fabulous time in the sun today, sipping coffee and having book-gasms. That wonderful feeling when someone has put into words things you’ve been intuiting for years… It set off a riot of inspiring ideas inside me.

(In case you are curious I was reading ‘Inner Work: Using dreams and Active Imagination for Personal Growth’ by Robert A Johnson, a Jungian analyst).

Really, when it comes down to it, the most important focus of my life that guides all my other choices is the inner work of bringing the unconscious into conscious alignment. Sex and BDSM just happen to be my tools and what fabulous tools they make because they are natural gateways between the conscious and the unconscious aspects of us. Sexual states of consciousness open the way to the symbolic realms just like dreams do, only sex also brings it into the embodied experience. In that sense sex and bdsm are natural shamanic rituals.

Approaching sexuality with awareness has the potential to rip the fabric of our reality open and directly expose us to the most potent, authentic, powerful and precious moments possible. You know that vague feeling that something is missing? That there should be more to sex? To life? Conscious sexuality leads us home to fulfil that nameless yearning.

Being conscious about our sexuality is not just about having bigger, better orgasms, though that is often a side effect… No it is about aligning all aspects of ourselves with, well, ourselves… the part of ourselves we are normally unconscious of… which is a giant submerged iceberg… and creating an active feedback loop and dialogue between conscious and unconscious that ripples out into our whole lives, creating meaning, purpose and benefiting all around us in every aspect of existence.

I can’t see how anything else could be more important than consciously engaging with inner work. Some use dance and trance… others use religious ritual or yoga or meditation or art, and others still use sexuality and BDSM. It all has the potential to aim for the same purpose. To align the parts of us we are normally unconscious of but which nonetheless effect every aspect of our lives, with our conscious mind.

When conscious and unconscious are in alignment and then anchored in us through embodiment, we are no longer at war with ourselves and everything flows in the most profound way.

From this perspective, to be a conscious sexuality whore dominatrix is a modern-day shaman… S/he that holds the space and creates the rituals that unite that which is known and that which is unseen within us…  linking us to the collective unconscious across time and space.

But most people don’t know that is what they crave… They just know they want a fuck… or crave some fetish… I don’t try to intellectually teach them… I just show them.

Jun 222013
 

Artemisia glamI sit all my clients down on the couch for a chat before we begin a conscious sexuality session of any kind be it an escort, erotic massage, erotic ritual, kinky session or a lesson in deeper pleasure. I say, “Tell me why you are here. What do you *really* want to experience? You were drawn to have a session with me because… Why? What are you hoping will happen? If you were to leave here saying “Wow! That was a fantastic session I really had an amazing experience!” what would have happened to make you feel that way?”

They don’t just describe the physical activities they hope for or the parts of my body they are attracted to… We get into a discussion that allows them to explore what they *really* want deep inside. We then discuss where I am willing and able to meet them and where I can’t. We set boundaries, create safe space where we both agree to explore and the session begins from a conscious place.

This makes the session a lot more satisfying for both of us. It shifts it from being a routine experience to something more real and potent. We get to actually engage as holistic sexual beings not just bodies. – Artemisia de Vine

Mar 172013
 

FanOne can listen to music while bopping around doing the chores and feel energised and pleasurable. It’s fun, good for you and healthy. However to consciously engage with music takes it to another level again. To give each note your full attention and feel each note fill and move your body, your emotions and indeed your whole being can take you to another world. You can become one with the music. Your mind stops chattering and your ego takes a back seat… You can more deeply connect with your authenticity, embodied wisdom and personal bliss.

One can apply this same principle to the full spectrum of erotic arts: from erotic massage to sex to BDSM and much more. I specialise in sessions and workshops that focus on the techniques to more deeply engage in our sexuality. Sex is already great. To learn techniques drawn from tantra, Taoism, sexological bodywork, mindfulness and body-mind therapies to more consciously engage with it, takes it to another level again. This doesn’t just apply to the “making love” style of erotic intimacy but to all aspects of our erotic wiring including those forbidden and completely politically incorrect fantasies and consensual power play games.

Sex, like emotion, is a primal force within us that has one foot in the conscious mind and one in the subconscious. It’s not about linear logic… It speaks a different language… the language of dreams. This can be scary. We’ve all encountered people who are in an aroused state of consciousness and yet they are being unconsciously driven by it rather than consciously engaging with it and it can feel really unpleasant and invasive.

We can engage with our anger consciously or let it control us like a bush fire… same with sexuality. This doesn’t lesson the pleasure, oh no! Conscious sexuality, without a doubt, magnifies all that we hold dear about our eroticism.

When BDSM and/or sex is engaged consciously, we access our most authentic personal expression and become fully present in each moment. Remarkable experiences can happen from this place. It is different from session to session depending on intent, unique erotic wiring of participants and the mood on the day. Outcomes can be any of the following:

* An experience of deeper, whole being, erotic pleasure
* Connecting and flowing in companionship and playfulness
* Healing
* Personal transformation
* Deeper intimacy
* A journey of self discovery
* Ecstatic states of consciousness

All workshops and sessions operate from a place of consent and respect with an intent to engage even more of our erotic potential. To achieve this we need trust and healthy boundaries. For this purpose there is a free consultation before each session to establish this.

So why have I used the word “conscious” instead of “spiritual”? Even though I identify as a spiritual sexual being, I think that sometimes people are put off by the spiritual language commonly used when talking about tantra.  I certainly don’t identify with a lot of the meaning placed on tantric experience by others. However I have found that the techniques and experiences themselves are potent and powerful no matter your worldview. It is relevant to people who identify as non spiritual and spiritual alike. All you need is a willingness to engage more consciously and fully with your unique erotic wiring and expression. If this appeals to you then these sessions are for you.

I see my work as an outpouring of passion that has stemmed from my own personal journey. My explorations and adventures have led to many insights and discoveries that have helped me to move beyond our cultural wide sex-shame epidemic and into a mind blowing and authentic relationship with my own eroticism. This passion has manifested in professionally facilitating and engaging with other people’s explorations in this arena. Primarily this includes taking one on one sessions as a Dominatrix (and occasional switch), Erotic bodyworker (massage), Somatic sex educator and Erotic ritualist. I also occasionally offer sessions as an Erotic Companion (private escort).

 For those interested in the conscious exploration of kink and BDSM, please see my other site, Conscious Kink, here.