Oct 012015
 

sydney spanking massage erotic artemisiaCEAThis naughty AND nice session is heaven for the sensualist spanking enthusiast!    I already offer exquisite erotic massage sessions on my sensual website and tantric erotic spanking and/or corporal punishment sessions on my kinky website.  Why not find a way to combine the two for a long, luxurious journey into the senses?

The de Vine Spanking Massage is a beautiful erotic massage that leads into a long, gentle building, sensual rhythmic spanking.  Genius right! Drift off into bliss land with a happy ending finish.  There is more to it so keep reading.

It actually came about when I conjured up my own ideal session and hired a sex worker to help me make it happen.  It was time to receive some erotic TLC instead of dishing it out all the time.  “Hmmm…” I thought, “I have this wonderful opportunity to be completely selfish and ask for my dream sexual pampering.  What shall I ask for?”

The de Vine spanking massage sydneyIf I was really honest, I just needed to lie back and receive without any pressure to give back.  That is the beauty of paying for it!  Once you’ve handed your cash over, you don’t need to worry about reciprocating.  If you are like me, and are the one usually expected to lead erotic encounters, an opportunity to let go and surrender to sensations is utter bliss!

I imagined what it would be like to receive a beautiful full body, hot oil, lomilomi style massage with lots of lovely skin on skin touch… the caress of soft breasts all over my body…

…then after a good 30-45mins of deep relaxation and nurture, what if I was then spanked, slowly and rhythmically… gently at first but then building in waves just intense enough to get the endorphins rushing…  the sharp sting or heavy thud of the occasional volley of intense sensations only to sink back into another gently building rhythmic wave…  combined with the dopamine flushing my flesh from all the lovely intimate touch this could be quite beautiful.

My personal preference is to include some hair pulling and a few (optional) strokes of the cane or paddle at just the right moment. This way I could use my tantric breathing to ride that high all the way to the sky!

Then when I am utterly blissed out, finish off with an unrushed genital massage happy ending.

Oh yeah baby!  Yep.  Uh-huh.

I loved this session so much that I decided to offer it to others.    I am happy to design an experience around your personal preferences.  We can negotiate light through to intense.

Artemisia de Vine escort Sydney CEAI am already quite famous for my exquisite erotic massage with anal play and I do a great tie and tease massage that included a wee bit of spanking.  The difference with the de Vine Spanking Massage scenario is that it is a session specifically designed to focus on blissful sensual spanking… If you’ve never had a chance to guided into a deep erotic trance state using alternating sensations and breath, then here is your chance!

(For those more into tradition domestic scene discipline role play sessions or intense BDSM, Mistress-style sessions with much more emphasis on power play, see my kinky website).

This session is 2hrs long.  It includes:

*Showers at the beginning and end
*Consultation to both help you discover your unique erotic wiring & teach you skills to drop deeper into this experience, including tantric breath to intentionally ride intense sensations. I also use this time to find out about your experience levels and design the session around your intentions and sensation preferences.  Light to intense sessions available.  Trust me, you’ll get a lot more out of it if we take the time to do this!
*Approximately 90mins on the massage table having your experience.
* Happy endings for all kinds of genitals! Yay!  Prostate stimulation an option…

So come, to The deVinery, my lush inner city play space, and indulge in some wicked pampering.

Fee:  $500

Location: Surry Hills, Sydney

Availability: 24 hrs notice preferred
Mon-Fri 11am-10pm
Saturday mornings are sometimes possible if a non refundable deposit is paid by Wednesday.

Contact: 0488 278 839
No texts or blocked numbers please.  Call to discuss or email.

Dec 132014
 

artemisia escort plussize mature antiqueDon’t fancy spending Christmas by yourself?  Come and spend it nestled in the ample bosom of voluptuous (size 16), very busty (G cup), Sydney-based GFE escort, Artemisia de Vine.

A very Merry Christmas Gentlemen!

Indulge yourself in the ultimate Christmas present this year by spending time receiving erotic TLC with me.  Whether it is a playful couple of hours or the full overnight/Christmas day experience  there is nothing quite like the company of an attractive, friendly and warmly sexual woman.  Rubenesque curves and the maturity to know how to use them!

Artemisia profile pic 2014Do you have something on your sexual bucket list? I’m on both Santa’s naughty and nice lists… I am a diverse practitioner with a greedy appreciation for the deeply sensual right through to the outright kinky and design play sessions around the unique wiring of each individual play partner.

This Christmas I am in the mood to offer the ultimate girlfriend experience!
Time to be held in my soft bosom, stroked skin-on-skin and loved up. Let’s pleasure each other in my erotic oasis with a combination of fun sex games, erotic massage, hot & sensual sexy times, feasting and companionship!  Or perhaps you are more inclined to get your christmas kink on?  Let’s put our minds together and see if we can’t come up with something tailor-made for us.  It will be an awful lot of fun!

Here is a blog about what it is like on a GFE date with me.

Please also take the time to read what others have written about their time with me.

I am open your suggestions but here are some ideas to get your imagination whirring.

Lady spanked mirrorIMG_7257-2Delightful Dalliance: Would you like to spend a couple of hours being pampered? Perhaps one of my famous erotic massage sessions followed by play time in the bed?  The girlfriend experience is as much about companionship as it is about discovering each other’s steamy secrets.  It is about fun little sex games, permission to let the masks fall away and just be yourself… No need to slip into performance role, you have the chance to let go of goals and just explore the possibilities with an affectionate and playful lady.
$700 for 2 hrs
$1000 for 3hrs

Artemisia ecstatic conscious sexChristmas lunch and playtime: What a hedonistic feast!  Shall we stay in and eat off each other’s bodies or go out to one of the local restaurants for a gourmet affair only to return for play time and companionship here in my lush play space, The de Vinery?  We would need to pre-book pretty quick so please contact me asap if you would like the restaurant option. 6hrs $2000 (includes food & wine budget of up to $200)

Artemisia de Vine antique queen final logoOvernight Indulgence:  Spend the evening playing and sexploring then stay the night.  Either Christmas Eve or Christmas night.  A combination of playtime, affection and  companionship.  What will Santa bring you on Christmas morning?  Perhaps you’d like to take this opportunity to try something you’ve always wanted to.  $2500 from 7pm-10am  

topless reclining

topless reclining

Santas Ultimate Gift!  Enjoy my company & seductive attentions from Christmas Eve till Christmas night. 24 hours of sensual affection and wickedly playful sex games.  The evening begins around 7 or 8pm on christmas eve, allowing time for us to enjoy some wine and nibbles together as well as sexy play time.  Spend the night snuggled up to my soft warm body and wake up to a Christmas surprise!   Breakfast provided.  Company and/or play time in the morning…then we can feast together for Christmas lunch either here at my play space or pre-book one of the local restaurants that are providing Christmas feasts.

Options for a relaxing afternoon with more play time if the mood strikes.  One of my famous hot oil erotic massages perhaps?  Or would you like to explore your kinky side?  Deeply sensual sexploration?  The evening ends 24 hours from when it began, spent and satisfied from tummy.  $4500 for 24 hours over Christmas

Pre-booking and 20% deposit required.   If you would like to explore my websites, see my sensual side here… and my BDSM side here…

Artemisia de Vine

Artemisia de Vine

More about me:
I am a voluptuous Goddess and elegant lady with a greedy appreciation for the full spectrum of erotic arts, from the deeply sensual through to the downright kinky.   I am an Erotic Massage specialist, GFE Escort and BDSM Mistress/switch.  I bring a depth and skill to my play that can only come from the confidence and experience of maturity.

I welcome older gentlemen who prefer the company of someone mature and young men who want to play with someone who knows what she is doing.  Whether you want to explore, learn, transform or just sink into my soft bossom and enjoy the company of a lady, there are sessions to suit you all.  Come into my oasis and treat yourself to some erotic TLC.
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Sep 212014
 
Artemisia de vine

Artemisia de vine

I blurted this post out on facebook in the wee hours this morning.  A friend asked to forward it so here it is in sharable blog-form, all rough and raw like my heart…

Ah this familiar nut. How to gently guide new lovers into ways of being that are not modelled after male-arousal-system-centric porn? How to gently let them know that my arousal system just doesn’t work that way and that what they’ve been taught by example their whole life is only half the picture. That they are actually going to have to change from the base assumption up before they become the extraordinary lover I know they can be… Before my needs can truly be met… before their potential pleasure can be significantly and dramatically expanded too…

As a Conscious Sexuality practitioner and Escort I can guide them. They expect it. They seek me out precisely because I will lead them into lived experiences of engaging with their sexuality… and mine… from a much richer place. A place that truly gets female-bodied arousal and taps into far more of their own.

But how to gently guide a personal lover without falling into teacher/work mode and without crushing their ego? Afterall it’s not their fault. The information just hasn’t been available for them to learn in most cases! They are not selfish. They are glorious sexual beings following their delicious intuition and what they’ve been exposed to. Most of them are very eager to please me!

It is just that our whole culture hasn’t even had a language for the kind of sex that fulfils me. Female-bodied folk haven’t even known it about ourselves to ask for it! It’s been cruelly invisible and tucked away in the wordless places on a collective cultural level… Only catching glimpses of it but not truly, intentionally letting it pour on out in the gushing, rushing wonder that is possible.

The female-bodied arousal sexual model that really harnesses our full potential is new for us all. As is embodied mindful sexuality in general. Holistically connected sexuality… conscious sexuality…

It is just not as easy as asking new lovers for certain acts to be done a certain way. The whole damn sexual ideology has to shift in its foundations.

I know how to get there. I cannot be satisfied by the old sexual paradigm anymore. I have to guide my lovers there… but back to the old nut… working out how to show them without ruining everything… It is particularly tricky when I crave someone who can take the lead so I can let go but they are intimidated by my knowledge.

It is such a tricky fix.   Perhaps I am supposed to know the answer already but I don’t.  This unknowing gives me empathy for my lovers and their unknowing.

Artemisia profile pic 2014About the Author: Artemisia de Vine is a Sydney-based escort and conscious erotic arts practitioner who offers sessions that are a mixture of learning, playing and exploring sexuality.  She has two websites, one for those more enticed by the sensual end of the spectrum and one for those more wired to explore kink and BDSM.  You can join her mailing list or follow her on Twitter.

Sep 132014
 
Artemisia de Vine

Artemisia de Vine

You can tell so much about a person’s maturity-levels and intentions by how they hit on you. I have a rule I follow for both personal dates and for assessing potential clients.

If someone only references my appearance when giving compliments then I don’t let it go any further. It doesn’t matter how polite, charming and flattering they are when they express their attraction to my body type, if that is the only part of me they have noticed then… Bo-bawww… No thanks.

It is fine to be attracted to my appearance and to say so but to get past the guardians at my gate, a potential lover has to notice the person inside the body and demonstrate this in some way. Not rocket science and yet disturbingly, so few get this.

Keep in mind that most people approach me online so have access to a detailed dating profile or work website. There is plenty to notice other than/ as well as my body. Even those that approach me in person need to show interest in more than my appearance before I will take any notice.

By applying this same rule to clients, only accepting those that reference something about my philosophy about sex and/or BDSM, or who show self-awareness and a desire to explore themselves, I have ended up with a healthy throng of regulars I feel good about exploring with and a bunch of satisfying one-off bookings too. It is an essential part of my self-care process in a culture that just assumes objectification of women, especially sex workers, is the norm.

About the Author:   Artemisia de Vine is a Sex worker and Conscious Erotic Arts Practitioner based in Sydney, Australia.  She specialises in erotic play sessions that allow the space to deeply explore your unique erotic wiring.  She has a greedy appreciation for the full spectrum of human sexuality from the sensual to the outright kinky.  As such she  has two websites, one sensual and one specialising in BDSM.  You can follow her on Twitter.

Mar 312014
 

artemisia anal massage prostate tantra sydneySo nice to get a snail mail letter thanking me for my erotic massage with anal/prostate massage!   Paul from Sydney asked me to type this out for my website as a review as he does not use a computer very well.

“I recently came upon the two websites of Artemisia de Vine and found them very interesting.  I have experience tantric massage before and was looking for something more edgy.  I decided on her anal erotic massage.

I rang and arranged for a 2hr session.  I was met at the door by an attractive, voluptuous lady.  I  went into her studio and we sat down with a cup of tea.  We practiced tantric breath and she explained what would happen in the massage.

erotic massage anal prostate fisting SydneyAfter showering I lay down on the table and after a few strokes I released I was with a lady who really knew what she was doing.  She is certainly gifted at massaging every inch of my body including my anal area and prostate.  I was incredibly pleasing and Artemisia was a delight to be with, with a great sense of humour and the ability to me you feel like a special person.

My 2 hours was up and I soon realised I would have to rejoin the real world.

I am looking forward to our next session as she has almost convinced me to try fisting. It takes a while to prepare the body for this and I am thinking about it.” – Paul, 61yo, Sydney

For those curious about my two websites, I have one focusing on erotic massage and conscious sexuality and one focusing on conscious exploration of kink.  There are several different kinds of massages available.

Read more reviews here…

Read more about what makes my erotic massages for famous here… 

 

Feb 252014
 

erotic massage banner sydneyMy anal and prostate erotic massage sessions are highly skilled and specialised and include full body, hot oil, skin on skin lomilomi to deeply relax you.  They are the ultimate indulgence for long time anal pleasure enthusiasts and curious beginners alike.

If you want to skip straight to how to book, see here… If you’d like to read more about what makes my massages so famous and exquisite, see below.

Why Lomilomi is the perfect compliment to sensual Anal play

Lomilomi is present, deeply sensual, heart centred touch that is designed to override the left and right hemispheres of the mind.  This aids in letting go of your chattering mind so you can become one with the erotic sensations of pleasure.   It’s the perfect complement as it is really important to be deeply relaxed for anal play.

My lovers bottomWe have Two Anal sphincters 

Your anus has two sphincters at the opening.  The outside one you can consciously squeeze and release at will.  Try it now.  See?  The second sphincter, just inside has the first is a different kettle of fish.  You have no conscious control over it.  If you place a finger just inside your anaus you will feel the second sphincter pulse but you can’t control whether it relaxes or not.  It’s this sphincter that hurts if someone just rushes on in before you are ready.

Teasing and Seducing you Open

In order to get that second sphincter to relax you need to relax all over.  I teach you a breathing technique used in tantra specifically designed to help you deeply relax while being aroused.  It is highly effective, especially in conjunction with lomilomi.

Using this breath while being touched all over in a deeply sensual way,  you enter a beautiful, floaty, dreamy state that allows your arousal to float all through you.  Your blood is more oxygenated helping to spread sensation throughout your whole being, rather than only focusing in the genital area.   Don’t fret!  Your cock will get plenty of attention too! I use a special tantric technique called a lingham massage that includes lots of different cock strokes designed to bring pleasure without tipping you over the edge before the end.

Onc eyou are both aroused and relaxed, I  then thoroughly massage your anal area externally, teasing, building tension and pleasure… before gently entering you.  I don’t force anything.   This is a no pain method.  I gently massage that second sphincter and I only enter when you body invites me to enter.

Artemisia de Vine

Artemisia de Vine

The Art of Prostate Massage

Once you are open I begin massaging internally.  Your prostate is the male G spot and like the female G spot it can be quite illusive.  It actually feels different at different levels of arousal.  This means that once you are aroused it is going to feel a whole lot different to when you doctor examines you!  It also means that you will experience changing sensations through your G spot during your massage.

Each person is different and enjoys different types of strokes… tapping, rubbing, thrusting, rolling… Some prefer vigorous in and out motion and others prefer much more of a gentle, circular motion.  I take the time to explore this with you so you can discover just what kind of pleasure your prostate is capable of and what works best for you.

I have learned the art of anal massage from Joseph Kramer himself who is world-renowned as a leader in teaching the most exquisite of anal pleasures.

erotic massage Sydney busty blonde plussize prostate CEAMindful Embodiment and Erotic Trance

Anal massage is one of the most relaxing forms of arousal.  It’s not that urgent needy arousal that is cock-centred.  Instead it builds slower but deeper, and spreads out further through your body.  With practice, it can lead to a kind of erotic trance.  You are still in full control, but like in meditation, your mind stops chattering and you become one with the sensations.   It’s a form of embodied, mindful erotic experience where you are noticing every little sensation.

With some practice and a few more tantric techniques, you can learn to enter into aroused ecstatic states of consciousness too.

Anal Orgasm

Some people can orgasm from anal stimulation alone.  It is a different kind of orgasm that doesn’t necessarily include ejaculation but rather ripples through you like a slow motion bass drum.  Just as female bodies can have clitoris-centric orgasms and G spot orgasms (and many other kinds), so can male bodies.  It takes experience, patience and deep relaxation to achieve though you will notice the pleasure leading in that direction on your first massage.  Some lucky people achieve anal orgasms first try!

Tantric Genital Massage

My massages also include lots of delicious tantric cock & ball massage techniques and you do have an opportunity to climax if that is what you would like.  Some choose not to ejaculate but instead use Taoist technique to have a sort of internal orgasm, spreading the arousal around inside without losing any of it or experiencing a “drop” like you do after an external ejaculation.

Artemisia de Vine

Artemisia de Vine

What happens in a session?

My sessions are far more than just a rub and tug.  They are a whole being experience.  From the moment you enter my lush play space  you are welcomed with a exotic tea and nibbles, made to feel comfortable and taught skills needed to explore your anal pleasure even deeper.   You then have an unhurried, luxurious time on the table where you are free to open up and be your true erotic self.

For this reason, my sessions are a minimum of 90mins and ideally 2 hours.  Details here…

From Finger to Anal Fisting

These sessions suit beginners and anal enthusiasts alike.  I offer sessions from finger to fisting and can include toys if that is what you body is ready for.   If you are more interested in pegging, you may be interested in my blog Let’s Talk Strap Ons: Discover your Pegging Style. 

dominatrix strap on 1I heard you also do a Kinky version of this?

Yes youheard right!  I am also very experienced in kink play and have a whole other side to me.   If you would like to see my Kinky Massage for beginners See here… I  have developed a tie and tease version of the above massage where you are blind folded and tied to the table.  When you take away one sense, the others are all ignited, alert and alive…  This session is still sensual but it is a feast of the senses.  It allows for various types of kinky explorations… you can include anal play or not, it’s up to you… Perhaps some light spanking… unexpected sensations… your excitement builds as you don’t know what is going to happen next and you have no choice but to lie back and receive.

If you want to see my much more full on, BDSM & kink website its here…

Where are you located and do you tour?

I am based in Glebe, Sydney but frequently tour Canberra and Melbourne.  I may make it to other capital cites too so please do join my mailing list to find out when I am in your area.

Sounds Great!  Where do I sign up?
Session details here…   But please also take the time to read the reviews from previous clients below.

Artemisia de Vine

Artemisia de Vine

Reviews from Previous Clients

“Just a huge thank you again for so generously indulging me in your tender arm and hands (and more) this morning. It was a beautifully unique and blissful experience. I walked around all day with an enormous smile on my face. Mmmm. Can’t wait to see you again. It was really very special. You have unique skills and I’m so glad you share them. One happy Sydney guy.” -Erotic massage/girlfriend experience deluxe combo

“so, finding myself with some spare time and in need of some creative relaxation, i found myself drawn to artemisia’s website (then avika). Luckily for me she could see me at an agreeable time,and so arrangements were made. She styles herself as offering a premium erotic massage, and that is completely delivered. In looks she is rubenesque, in manner she is both charming and forthright, and her massage is both relaxing, and ultimately wildly erotic. If you want a supermodel pretending to care while focussing on the clock, go elsewhere. Artemisia is a voluptuous provider of erotic pleasure, and clearly enjoys what she does. Ill be back. Cheers. N (43 yrs)”

“That was unbelievable!  I have no words.  You are an erotic choreographer.  I really have no words”. – G Sydney 2013

“I’m just coming off the high from the other day… you can put this on your website. I had the pleasure to spend an hour of absolute bliss with this lady, she took me on a journey that I hadn’t been before an felt like I could touch the sky, it was a great experience and one that I would love to experience again.” ‘D’ – Cairns 2012

“SO much more than a rub and tug. I feel like I’ve finally been touched the way I always wanted to be touched but never knew I wanted if that makes sense? If you want a cheap rub an tug, go somewhere else. If you want someone who can take you to places for real, go see Artemisia”. Ron – 2012 Cairns

“I can honestly say that I got so much more than I expected. I didn’t know I could feel that way” – Ben 38yo South Australia 2012

“Best. Massage. EVER. You can quote me on that”. Greg, Byron Bay 2011

“I used to be a professional masseur and I can tell you that Artemisia’s (sessions) are a rare treat. Her touch is so soft and sensual. She really knows what she’s doing” – Surfer Matt, Lismore 2011

“I had the need and went to visit Artemisia (was Avika) for a bit of relief but got so much more than that. I dunno how to say really. She’s something special this one”. – Arron 50 Melbourne 2010

“Artemisia my dear, I have never had anyone put so much effort and feeling into their service! Some ladies charge a premium for their service and its hardly worth it. You are worth every penny.” Rob 57, Cairns 2012

“Having known Artemisia for several years I was intrigued when she started offering erotic massages, but felt her descriptions gave me little idea what to expect. Now having had one I think that is because they are almost beyond description. What I can say is that if you are just chasing pleasure with a beautiful woman you will have a fine time, but have plenty of choices elsewhere. If you want to learn new things about yourself, about sex and joy and how you can experience your body in new ways you may never have imagined then Artemisia offers all that, and you may have trouble finding it elsewhere.” – Stephen, Scientist, 42, Melbourne, 2012

 

“Artemisia is an important part of the sexual revolution, it is an honor to know her. I like the fact that she has respect for herself, and respect for her clients, and won’t accept people who can’t play by both those rules. In doing so, she sets up a far more meaningful, pleasurable and holistic exchange. I think this is what the world is really lusting for, and Artemisia is the perfect person to be in that role. I love hearing about how she takes the time to genuinely connect with people, and stay with them on their journey of sexual discovery. And the way she finds beauty, wherever it may be hiding. Engage her intellectually and you will pleased on many levels! Finally, as a sex-positive educator and pro kinkster, she knows everything there is to know about subjects that most people have never heard of. Highly recommended!” – Chris Even

 

 

 

 

 

Feb 232014
 

 

Artemisia de Vine EM Prof logoHi, my name is Artemisia de Vine and I am a professional dominatrix, switch and domestic discipline spankee.   I also offer top shelf, exquisitely sensual, erotic massages and other types of intimate erotic sessions including conscious sexuality sessions.

This sometimes confuses people.  Those that want to be held and nurtured fear that my kinky side negates my ability to also be sensual and loving .  Those that are wired to want a dominatrix to take full, merciless control doubt my ability to pull that off if I also offer lush sensual sessions.

Sex and/or BDSM are not merely a set of acts but are rather a place we go inside ourselves and a journey into erotic consciousness we share together. 

Here’s the thing.  All of the above sessions are aiming to get to the same place.  In all the above scenarios we are aiming to build tension and then let go and fully open to our erotic experience…  To enter into that illusive but divine state of being that allows the “talking mind” to stop chattering… to be fully in the moment… embodied… exquisite surrender… washed over with sensations…

More important than any act performed, it’s a place within us we really crave to enter.  It’s primarily a state of consciousness.  Everything else is just a means to get us there.

This is one of the main reasons I chose to call myself a Conscious Erotic Arts Practitioner.  While the kinds of sessions I offer are broad, they all have one thing in common.

I am a specialist in Erotic States of Consciousness. 

We are all aiming for that mystical magical place within us whether we are aware of it or not.  Really at the heart of it we are searching for more than the physical release of an orgasm.  The truly mind-blowing erotic experiences include our whole being… mind, body, heart and that illusive thing many call soul…  They are mind blowing because of the state of consciousness our minds and bodies enter into.

However, each of us is wired uniquely so each person is going to need to explore a different way of getting there.   What interests me is working out the puzzle each client presents.  I thrive on working out what is going to be the best kind of play for them at this particular point in time.

For some it is an overty sexual or “horny” feeling and for others it is primarily about power play and release.  All of it falls under the category of eroticism to me as I use eroticism to mean “eros”… the creative life force that pumps through our veins and motivates us in all sorts of conscious and not so conscious ways.   The point is, each person is unique in how they access this within themselves.

 

Erotic play and meditation have a lot in common. 

Recently science has caught up with knowledge us kinksters have known for ages.  Kink is the new yoga.  It has all the benefits of meditating and exercising.  Kinksters often report feeling calm and blissful after play like their system has been re-booted.  They often report insights into themselves and a feeling of connectedness with themselves and others.

However, it is not just kink that can have that effect on us… It’s not just pain or power play… it’s sensual pleasure too… Tantra practitioners, Taoists and various other erotic esoteric traditions have been pointing to the potential sexuality has to access profound states of being for thousands of years.

Most of us stumble across the amazing potential sexuality has to access profound and sometimes life altering states of consciousness at some point.  Or we at least touch on it… and have a sense there is something more if only we could just get the right set of circumstances together…  Maybe we think we need to be in limerence (that fresh new honey moon in-loveness) in order to access it… Perhaps we are waiting for the right lover…

The truth is, while having a lover who is on the same page as you really helps, there are skills we can learn within ourselves that make the likelihood of reaching these ecstatic, erotic states far more likely, far more often, whether we are in a romantic relationship or not.   We really don’t need to rely on the temporary high of being newly in love to access this delicious and precious part of ourselves.

 

The conscious erotic arts are about intentionally cultivating these states of being within ourselves. 

The more aware we are about our own unique erotic wiring… the more we develop a deeper relationship with our inner workings… the more conscious we are about it… the further we can go into each experience.

This is not something I can do to someone any more than a tango teacher can do the tango to someone.  It is something that can be cultivated however. It also helps considerably to have an experienced play partner whose intention is to create all the right circumstances to enhance potential erotic states of being and experience.   It also helps to learn the steps from someone who has danced them many times…  Again like the experienced tango teacher…

My role is to guide people into the skills needed to cultivate this way of approaching our eroticism be it kinky or sensual.  My sessions include consultations to help each person work out their unique wiring.  Together we design a series of play sessions that allow that person to explore their holistic erotic potential in a way that compliments their individual journey.

For some that may be receiving a series of lush full being erotic massages that allow them to just lie back and receive while practicing the techniques I’ve taught them… to enter deeper erotic states of consciousness…  to let go, surrender the ego and soar…

For others this may be an intense power exchange session where I am a sadistic bitch from hell and they have no choice but to surrender to the moment…  sometimes this leads to state of consciousness kinksters call “subspace” where the sense of time passing is distorted as each moment becomes an eternity yet nothing at the same time… where the ego lets go… the chattering mind ceases.. often accompanied by ecstatic, heart opening bliss…

Are you seeing the common link here?  Surrender… letting go of the ego… letting a different, wiser part of ourselves take the drivers seat… A part of us that feel connected as though we are all One…

Like in meditation, the ego doesn’t like giving up the driver’s seat… it will trick us in any way it can to try to hold onto control.  Each person will need a different way of approaching their eroticism in order to flick that switch that allows them to let go.  Some need to feel super safe, held and nurtured while others like the illusion of another person in control forcing them to let go.  Sometimes we need to role play in whatever way is necessary to get something deep inside our unconscious to surrender.

When we do get to that state of being it is exquisite… for many it is a spiritual experience… utterly divine… and has all the same benefits as meditation or yoga only with the added benefit of arousal.  Can’t complain about that right!

The point is that when I take on these different roles, dominatrix, switch, spankee, sensual lover, massage practitioner… I am doing so after a thorough consultation process where we both agree to take on the role necessary to aid the person going on the erotic journey.

Does that mean that I am just acting?

Am I just pretending to be a sadistic bitch or a loving erotic nurturer or a bratty spankee?  Does that mean I am not a “real” Mistress?

No, it doesn’t.  All aspects I offer are naturally within me.  I only offer to play roles that are really part of me.  I am just really good at drawing on them at will.  Within me dwell the full spectrum of personality archetypes… in you too… it is a skill to learn how to draw on them at will and one that I am quite practiced at if I do say so myself ;)

 

This sounds great!  How do I learn these skills?

If you are interested in exploring how to do this, sign up to my mailing lists through the websites listed below to find out about upcoming workshops.  You may be particularly interested in my workshop on “Embracing Erotic Shadows through Role Play”.  Alternatively you can contact me to discuss a personalised series of sessions that allow you to explore you unique wiring.   One of sessions give you a good test taste of this potential but it really is a journey so those that opt to invest in their erotic self discovery and personal sexual development benefit most from a series of sessions.

Despite the common thread between all my sessions, those seeking sensual conscious sexuality and erotic massage sessions prefer not to be exposed to my darker kinky personalities… and vise versa.  To respect that, I have two different websites.  One is for those who wish to explore Conscious Kink and the other is for those who want to explore the more Sensual Conscious Erotic Arts.

However I personally don’t see a conflict.  Both sites represent the real me. I am  following my natural inclinations.  This  sometimes means engaging sensually and intimately and sometimes means explore my perverse power play lust… or sometimes just playing spanking games for the fun of it.  It’s all me.  When playing with another I search for the place where we naturally overlap and create a session within that space.

www.consciouseroticarts.com
www.consciouskink.com

Dec 032013
 
Artemisia de Vine

Artemisia de Vine

It’s always so lovely to get feedback from my clients.  I especially love working and playing with those on a journey of erotic awakening who are open and willing to explore and discover just what is possible.   After a consulation together P and I decided on an erotic lomilomi massage based session with drawing on aspects of tantra and kink.   P had already seen a three of my friends and colleagues who also approach sexuality from a conscious or tantric perspective.  We all approach things in our own unique way and have learned from some of the world’s conscious sexuality pioneers. He had learned a lot from them and it was time to explore something new.  This is what he had to say.

“I’ve been on a Tantra discovery journey during 2013. On my Tantra journey, my research frequently spoke about this spiritual massage referred to as Lomi Lomi, which I understand comes from the Hawaiian culture, so it was of interest to receive a great recommendation from the incredible Zoe Montana that Artemisia de Vine, was the Mistress of Lomi Lomi practitioners. Zoe warmly recommended and suggested making contact with Miss de Vine.

As chance had it, Miss de Vine was visiting and an appointment made after a preparatory conversation. After further exploring desired expectations before our session started, another talent of Tantra ladies was reinforced – they all listen and remember these personal discussions – I know this to be true because of the way they weave so much more into the sessions and experiences of the Tantra traveller. Artemisia did this very effectively during the very relaxing and oily Lomi Lomi massage – combined with some erotic kink play and a touch of spanking.

One of the many great experiences in my Tantra journey includes the generosity of spirit, skill and intelligent conversation provided by wonderful guides such as the thoughtful and elegant Olivia ~ Tantrawoman, the delightful and creative goddess Electra Amore, the gracious, accepting and sensual Zoe Montana and now the skilful artisan Artemisia de Vine. In all experiences from Olivia, Electra, Zoe and Artemisia – there is a great sense of pride in ensuring that the experiences they offer, are not just a standard formula of sensual pleasure. They all want to understand the expectations of the Tantric traveller and what they hope to achieve by sharing time together. On viewing the comprehensive web sites offered, the range of skills and experiences offered – but all hark back to the Tantra principles of breath and life.

 Thank you one and all ~ I regard you all so highly as trusted travel companions.

 My thanks to you Artemisia, I clearly enjoyed a wonderfully sensual and exhilarating experience enjoying  fully the skills, explanations, ideas and company that you shared.” – P

 

Nov 142013
 

diamond pussy CEA logoDreaming up a creative photo shoot project for my websites that is giving me goosebumps just thinking about it. Finding ways to channel the archetypes far more than skin deep… Creating images of power, vulnerability, ecstasy, and the sexual version of the hero’s journey… images that reflect the inner work of truly accessing our sexuality… art that calls to the core of heart, cock and cunt, not just tickles the eye…

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-Artemisia de Vine-

Diamond pussy pic by Shane from Liquid Light Studios.

Nov 142013
 

FanAs a whore, I don’t want to be treated as a pretty pet to pass the time with.  I choose to be seen as the skilled practitioner in her sexual power and beauty who is capable of taking clients on erotic journeys and experiences into themselves… giving them a chance to feel what it is like to be with a sexually empowered and embodied woman.

Many whores I know are fiercely fabulous, self-aware, connected sexual beings.   The thing is, we are so limited in where we can advertise and get our message out there…  The brothels and the adult services directories frame sex work in a way that is counter to the above implying we are there to simply physical vessels to pleasure submissively… that we are an item on the menu…  sets of physical features with polite customer service formulaic conversational styles.

I see us as more akin to tango teachers and expert dance partners… part counsellor, part companion, part playmate, part sex educator, part priestess to guide you into the erotic mysteries…  Someone with a skill to share and respect.  I see myself as a representative of the archetypal woman,  who knows how to help you explore you inner world through sexual play.

Self discovery… Play… Pleasure…Comfort…. Holistic connection with our whole beings through sexual energy… 

Some advertising sites have done a semi effective job of countering the image that we are merely physical bodies with submissive, pre-scripted phrases but they still don’t quite get it right.  It’s still a case of us having to present ourselves within a framework that assumes certain values and ways of being.   There is still internalized whorephobia and sexism coded into the framework that disadvantages clients and sexuality professionals alike.

Imagine how much would change if we re-framed that whole culture of representation.   What if we choose to think of a whore as a sexual life coach who you approach with respect because they are an expert in their field?  Or a holistic companion to engage with you on all levels?  Then perhaps you can consciously negotiate sexual power roles together… Maybe she or he is more than happy to be the sexual submissive on their knees to please and treat you like royalty… Maybe she or he prefers to be the one who takes the lead and guide you to pleasing them… Or guide you to discovering aspects of yourself you didn’t know were there… Either way is fine.  There is the world of difference in being a sexually submissive woman when that role is consciously negotiated compared to when it is just assumed that all female whores are sexually submissive and subservient.

I draw to me clients who think along those lines.  Many men truly adore women and are respectful, genuine clients who are delighted to discover what is possible down the erotic rabbit hole but the culture of industry itself  makes it hard for them too.  The way we frame sex work needs to change so we can all access juicier play.