Jun 082014
 

Artemisia de Vine escort Sydney CEA

“Artemisia looks like she has stepped out of an oil painting with her english rose complexion and womanly curves!  She is a Rubenesque Goddess who radiates warmth and sexual confidence in the way only a mature woman can.  I found her to not only be a delightfully sensual lover but also a fascinating companion.  She is an educated, classy and accomplished lady with a wicked streak.  She is bringing back the art of the courtesan while remaining really easy and comfortable to be with.  I could just be myself.”  – Brian 62yo, Sydney

“She is a heady mix of womanly curves and the friendly, flirty confidence that excites me.    If it is a skinny, young, super model you seek then go else where.  If it is an encounter with a real woman who knows what she is doing and is great to be with then I recommend spending an overnight with Artemisia.  She made me feel so alive and young again.”  – Mark 54yo, Canberra

Hello and welcome!

Artemisia escort divaMy name is Artemisia de Vine and I offer dinner dates and overnight girlfriend experience encounters to select discerning clients who enjoy the erotic company of an intelligent, curvy, woman in her late thirties.

Do you crave the touch of skin-on-skin and the delight of sinking into ample, silicon-free bosom?  Are you attracted to a voluptuous lady with soft, soft G cup breasts that jiggle when she laughs? Do you prefer the company of someone you can relax and be yourself with?

Do you find that you enjoy the erotic delights ever so much more if it is part of a date?  A chance to spend time getting to know each other and enjoy each other’s company, flirting, building tension over a meal together and then retiring to the bedroom to explore each other’s bodies?  Perhaps then falling asleep all snuggled up… only to be gently woken for lazy morning sex? Then perhaps what I offer is for you.

I have put together a list of answers to frequently asked questions you might find useful when deciding whether or not I am the right escort for you.

Artemisia de Vine antique queen final logoAt a Glance:

  •  Age: Late 30s.  A lady never tells… ;)
  • Height: 5”6 or 167cm without heels
  • Hair: Blonde, curly but occasionally straightened, bra strap length
  • Eyes: Green
  • Bust: Silicon-free G cup.
  • Dress size: 14-16

See Gallery here… 

What actually happens on a dinner date? 

Dinner dates are a mixture of company, sharing a meal and play time.

We meet at the hotel or restaurant of your choice just like any other date.  We spend time enjoying each other’s company for the length of a the meal and some friendly drinks.  There is plenty of time to flirt and discover each other without stifling clock watching pressure.  We can let arousal build and enjoy the anticipation.  I really enjoy this kind of booking because sex is so much more fulfilling for both of us if we have time to seduce each other.

We then retire to the hotel or return to my private, lush play space affectionately called “The DeVinery”.  Here we have a leisurely few hours to sexplore together.  We find where we naturally overlap and enjoy discovering each others bodies, secret turn ons and see what unfolds.   I can be deeply sensual and affectionate but also enjoy helping your explore your wild side.

Length of booking: 5hrs

Fee: $1700  (Meal and hotel provided by you.)

Lady spanked mirrorIMG_7257-2How is an overnight booking any different to a dinner date?

More time to let things unfold in the evening, spending the night snuggled up to my soft curves and being gently awoken for morning sex… and possibly breakfast together.  The rest is the same as the dinner date scenario… company, shared meal on a date, seduction…  Never underrate seduction!  The more levels of us that are involved in a sexual encounter the more satisfying it is.  Sex is not just about the physical acts but about the places we go inside ourselves and with each other.

This type of booking requires a minimum of 6hrs sleep time.  It is a mixture of company, play time and snuggles.

Length of booking: We can begin anytime from 7pm and enjoy each other’s company unhurried until 9:30-10 ish the next day.  The cost is the same even if you start later or finish earlier to fit around your schedule.  The point is I allow up to that much time for things to take their natural course.

Fee: $2500

Do you do longer bookings for trips?

Yes I do.  However we need to have seen each other before on a shorter booking to ensure that we are suitable play mates.   Trip rates can be negotiated together in private.

Artemisia de Vine

Artemisia de Vine

How about shorter bookings?

Yes you are most welcome to come and spend a couple of hours with me in The DeVinery.  I prefer booking lengths that allow us unhurried sexploration time.  I do occasionally offer 1 hr bookings but much prefer a minimum of 90mins-2hrs.  If we are going to do it, we need to do it properly.

1 hr $400
90mins $550

2 hr $700 

Special rates: negotiated for those who want a regular monthly (or more frequent) play date.  I only offer this once I have seen you at least once.

 Do you tour?

Yes!  My most common touring destinations are Melbourne, Canberra and hopefully Perth.  I am open to touring elsewhere if there are enough enquiries.  Please join my mailing list to receive discrete updates about tours as well as sexy pictures and erotica that I write.  I also publish the odd useful blog on how to explore even more pleasure in your sexuality.

wild hair escort Artemisia bustyI follow you on twitter and you talk a lot about kinky stuff and I am not into that, can we still play?  

I am a complex sexual being.  I sometimes like to explore my sensual side and other times like to explore my kinky side.  Sometimes I want pizza for dinner… sometimes I want a minestrone soup… sometimes a spicy curry…  I cannot be boxed into categories like “sensual” or “kinky” but have a greedy appreciation of the lot.

The thing all my sessions have in common is a desire to help you explore your unique erotic wiring, just the way it is.  Each of us has a unique erotic fingerprint.  No two lovers are the same.  With me, you can let the masks fall off and be exactly who you are.  We can have an honest chat on the phone before you book and see whether or not we have enough in common to be suitable playmates.

I’m kinky as all get out, can we do the girlfriend experience and be kinky too?

Possibly.  It depends on the scenario.  If I am in my Mistress or Dominatrix role, I do not have sex with my slaves or submissives.  It just doesn’t work for me.  However, if we are doing a kinky role play I may be up for it.  So ask me.  No harm in asking right?

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topless reclining

Do you do role play fantasies?

Oh yes I do!  Feel free to ask me what it is you really want to experience and I’ll be honest about whether or not that is something I can provide.  Some things I enjoy are role plays:

  • Teacher/Student
  • Boss/Employee
  • Age Play
  • Tie and Tease scenarios
  • And a whole variety of really creative scenarios… Email me your ideas and I’ll let you know…

I heard you do erotic massage can that be included in our evening?

Yes it can!  I am well-known for my erotic massages.  They are designed to drop you down deep into a blissful erotic state of consciousness, and I draw on tantra and other erotic embodiment techniques to make the experience so. much. more. than just a rub and tug.

However if you want this very special erotic massage, you will need to come to my space as I need certain equipment to make it work.  If this is a feature you particularly desire, then when I am on tour, make sure you ask me whether or not I have this with me before you book.

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What other sexual activities do you do?

I am very well-known for being fantastic at pegging (strap-on play) and have a wide variety of toys.  I have introduced many men to the joys of male G-spot massage over the years.  Pegging can be deeply sensual or naughty and dirty…  I wrote a blog to help you discover your pegging style on my other kink-centric website.  Check it out here…

There are also a lot of activities I am fond of but for discretion sake do not want to publicly list.  Please drop me an email and ask if there is something specific you are hoping for.  I negotiate activities from person to person depending on what feels right.  (That strap on pic is not me but the rest are all me).

Please note that all my play includes safe sex practices.  This is non negotiable.

 

Artemisia de Vine

Artemisia de Vine

You say “select” gentlemen, what criteria do I need to meet for you to accept a booking with me? 

It’s pretty simple, if you want to do something, I try to create the space for you to explore that, but you need to show respect and get consent first.

It is true that I do not accept everyone who applies for a play date with me.  However, you need not fear that I am judging you on your appearance, cultural background, age, dis(ability).  What is important to me is that we have a certain level of rapport and respect.  We need to be able to get along or it’s not going to be fun for either of us!  We can work out whether or not we would like a booking together by a chat on the phone.

Mutual respect is vital.  I treat you as the valuable human and sexual being you are.  I care for your well-being and strive to create valuable experiences that allows you to express your true sexual self.

Artemisia ecstatic conscious sexIn return, I expect to be approached in the same manner that you would a non paid date.   Acting like a gentleman is an absolute must on my criteria.  If you approach me in a crude or degrading way then no, I will not share my vulnerable sexual self with you.  If you want to play dirty games that include dirty talk then you need to negotiate that first, not just assume its ok to speak to me that way.  I might love it!  But only if it is consensual.

Cleanliness including oral hygiene is vitally important!

Do you see older gentlemen? 

Yes I do see older gents and very much enjoy mature company.  I see people from 18-100 and meet them where they are at.

What about younger men?

Yes for sure!  I am surprised and delighted to discover that now I am more mature, I am attracting lots of younger men who want to enjoy the sexual confidence of a mature woman.  I’m having a lot of fun in my cougar years!  Each age group has their appeal…

In your experience, what makes someone good at GFE

The girlfriend experience is about acknowledging that sex is more than just a physical act.  We are sexual beings body, mind and soul. Truly satisfying sexual play takes the time to unfold and drop the masks.  It is about including all levels of us in our play.  I believe that at our core we are all the same.  It is easy for me to see that when I look into a strangers eyes… So it’s not about play acting, but taking time to connect and create a moment together..   It’s about holding the safe space to draw out an aspect of us that needs to be expressed.

That could be a moment of affection and laughing companionship… It could be playfulness… It could be intense sensual surrender… It could be a profound moment of sexual realness…   It is what it is in the moment.

I am good at allowing you to be yourself.  I create a lush atmosphere where the rest of the world drops away and you can let your guards down.  Play time with me is about recharging on more than just a physical level.

Ok I’m interested, how can I apply for a date with you?

Great!  The best way to get a feel for each other is to have a chat on the phone.  If you are shy, you are welcome to start with an email enquiry but we will need to chat before we confirm the booking.   Contact me here…

 

Feb 232014
 

 

Artemisia de Vine EM Prof logoHi, my name is Artemisia de Vine and I am a professional dominatrix, switch and domestic discipline spankee.   I also offer top shelf, exquisitely sensual, erotic massages and other types of intimate erotic sessions including conscious sexuality sessions.

This sometimes confuses people.  Those that want to be held and nurtured fear that my kinky side negates my ability to also be sensual and loving .  Those that are wired to want a dominatrix to take full, merciless control doubt my ability to pull that off if I also offer lush sensual sessions.

Sex and/or BDSM are not merely a set of acts but are rather a place we go inside ourselves and a journey into erotic consciousness we share together. 

Here’s the thing.  All of the above sessions are aiming to get to the same place.  In all the above scenarios we are aiming to build tension and then let go and fully open to our erotic experience…  To enter into that illusive but divine state of being that allows the “talking mind” to stop chattering… to be fully in the moment… embodied… exquisite surrender… washed over with sensations…

More important than any act performed, it’s a place within us we really crave to enter.  It’s primarily a state of consciousness.  Everything else is just a means to get us there.

This is one of the main reasons I chose to call myself a Conscious Erotic Arts Practitioner.  While the kinds of sessions I offer are broad, they all have one thing in common.

I am a specialist in Erotic States of Consciousness. 

We are all aiming for that mystical magical place within us whether we are aware of it or not.  Really at the heart of it we are searching for more than the physical release of an orgasm.  The truly mind-blowing erotic experiences include our whole being… mind, body, heart and that illusive thing many call soul…  They are mind blowing because of the state of consciousness our minds and bodies enter into.

However, each of us is wired uniquely so each person is going to need to explore a different way of getting there.   What interests me is working out the puzzle each client presents.  I thrive on working out what is going to be the best kind of play for them at this particular point in time.

For some it is an overty sexual or “horny” feeling and for others it is primarily about power play and release.  All of it falls under the category of eroticism to me as I use eroticism to mean “eros”… the creative life force that pumps through our veins and motivates us in all sorts of conscious and not so conscious ways.   The point is, each person is unique in how they access this within themselves.

 

Erotic play and meditation have a lot in common. 

Recently science has caught up with knowledge us kinksters have known for ages.  Kink is the new yoga.  It has all the benefits of meditating and exercising.  Kinksters often report feeling calm and blissful after play like their system has been re-booted.  They often report insights into themselves and a feeling of connectedness with themselves and others.

However, it is not just kink that can have that effect on us… It’s not just pain or power play… it’s sensual pleasure too… Tantra practitioners, Taoists and various other erotic esoteric traditions have been pointing to the potential sexuality has to access profound states of being for thousands of years.

Most of us stumble across the amazing potential sexuality has to access profound and sometimes life altering states of consciousness at some point.  Or we at least touch on it… and have a sense there is something more if only we could just get the right set of circumstances together…  Maybe we think we need to be in limerence (that fresh new honey moon in-loveness) in order to access it… Perhaps we are waiting for the right lover…

The truth is, while having a lover who is on the same page as you really helps, there are skills we can learn within ourselves that make the likelihood of reaching these ecstatic, erotic states far more likely, far more often, whether we are in a romantic relationship or not.   We really don’t need to rely on the temporary high of being newly in love to access this delicious and precious part of ourselves.

 

The conscious erotic arts are about intentionally cultivating these states of being within ourselves. 

The more aware we are about our own unique erotic wiring… the more we develop a deeper relationship with our inner workings… the more conscious we are about it… the further we can go into each experience.

This is not something I can do to someone any more than a tango teacher can do the tango to someone.  It is something that can be cultivated however. It also helps considerably to have an experienced play partner whose intention is to create all the right circumstances to enhance potential erotic states of being and experience.   It also helps to learn the steps from someone who has danced them many times…  Again like the experienced tango teacher…

My role is to guide people into the skills needed to cultivate this way of approaching our eroticism be it kinky or sensual.  My sessions include consultations to help each person work out their unique wiring.  Together we design a series of play sessions that allow that person to explore their holistic erotic potential in a way that compliments their individual journey.

For some that may be receiving a series of lush full being erotic massages that allow them to just lie back and receive while practicing the techniques I’ve taught them… to enter deeper erotic states of consciousness…  to let go, surrender the ego and soar…

For others this may be an intense power exchange session where I am a sadistic bitch from hell and they have no choice but to surrender to the moment…  sometimes this leads to state of consciousness kinksters call “subspace” where the sense of time passing is distorted as each moment becomes an eternity yet nothing at the same time… where the ego lets go… the chattering mind ceases.. often accompanied by ecstatic, heart opening bliss…

Are you seeing the common link here?  Surrender… letting go of the ego… letting a different, wiser part of ourselves take the drivers seat… A part of us that feel connected as though we are all One…

Like in meditation, the ego doesn’t like giving up the driver’s seat… it will trick us in any way it can to try to hold onto control.  Each person will need a different way of approaching their eroticism in order to flick that switch that allows them to let go.  Some need to feel super safe, held and nurtured while others like the illusion of another person in control forcing them to let go.  Sometimes we need to role play in whatever way is necessary to get something deep inside our unconscious to surrender.

When we do get to that state of being it is exquisite… for many it is a spiritual experience… utterly divine… and has all the same benefits as meditation or yoga only with the added benefit of arousal.  Can’t complain about that right!

The point is that when I take on these different roles, dominatrix, switch, spankee, sensual lover, massage practitioner… I am doing so after a thorough consultation process where we both agree to take on the role necessary to aid the person going on the erotic journey.

Does that mean that I am just acting?

Am I just pretending to be a sadistic bitch or a loving erotic nurturer or a bratty spankee?  Does that mean I am not a “real” Mistress?

No, it doesn’t.  All aspects I offer are naturally within me.  I only offer to play roles that are really part of me.  I am just really good at drawing on them at will.  Within me dwell the full spectrum of personality archetypes… in you too… it is a skill to learn how to draw on them at will and one that I am quite practiced at if I do say so myself ;)

 

This sounds great!  How do I learn these skills?

If you are interested in exploring how to do this, sign up to my mailing lists through the websites listed below to find out about upcoming workshops.  You may be particularly interested in my workshop on “Embracing Erotic Shadows through Role Play”.  Alternatively you can contact me to discuss a personalised series of sessions that allow you to explore you unique wiring.   One of sessions give you a good test taste of this potential but it really is a journey so those that opt to invest in their erotic self discovery and personal sexual development benefit most from a series of sessions.

Despite the common thread between all my sessions, those seeking sensual conscious sexuality and erotic massage sessions prefer not to be exposed to my darker kinky personalities… and vise versa.  To respect that, I have two different websites.  One is for those who wish to explore Conscious Kink and the other is for those who want to explore the more Sensual Conscious Erotic Arts.

However I personally don’t see a conflict.  Both sites represent the real me. I am  following my natural inclinations.  This  sometimes means engaging sensually and intimately and sometimes means explore my perverse power play lust… or sometimes just playing spanking games for the fun of it.  It’s all me.  When playing with another I search for the place where we naturally overlap and create a session within that space.

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Dec 162013
 

 

temptPleased to announce my upcoming workshops at the Celebrating Sexuality Conference  just outside Melbourne in Feb 14-16.  It is a two-hour introduction to my more in-depth 2 day workshop on this topic.   If you are interested in attending the more extensive version of this or other workshops, be sure to join my mailing list to find out when they are being held.

Artemisia de Vine Goddess of Conscious Kink & the Erotic Arts presents: Embracing our Erotic Shadows through Fantasy & Role Play.

Professional dominatrix, switch & practitioner of the conscious erotic arts, Artemisia brings her expertise and passion for entering into the deeper realms of kink play to life in this workshop.

In this workshop, Artemisia introduces the idea of consciously using role play to engage our vulnerable, hidden, erotic shadows and “forbidden” sexuality in a way that benefits ourselves and our loved ones and allows us to form a deeper, more aware relationship with our shadow selves. She guides you through fun but potent exercises and provides practical tools for creating role play scenes and rituals. There is no nudity and you do not have to share your personal erotic fantasies. Engage in the practical exercises only to whatever level you choose to.

Fantasies often get a bad rap amongst tantra circles as something that takes us away from being fully present and embodied with ourselves and our lovers. Sexual fantasies are toted as acceptable in popular culture but very rarely is their potential to access healing, personal growth and spirituality ever talked about or explored. Often our sexual fantasies are different to our lovers and it can be quite scary to share them. We quite often don’t want to admit we have them ourselves because the nature of fantasy is that of strange dream-like desires, images and urges that drift up from our unconscious mind only when we are aroused. In fantasy we act in ways towards ourselves and each other in way we may not really want to in everyday life. This can be confusing and a source of shame. Artemisia presents an accessible but powerful ways of embracing our shadow selves through fantasy, erotic role play rituals.

Artemisia is a professional and lifestyle kinkster, sex worker, somatic sex coach, workshop facilitator, public speaker, blogger and aspiring author. Trained in sexological bodywork, various forms of neo-tantra, lomi lomi bodywork, BDSM and draws on various esoteric erotic traditions. Her whole life is dedicated to passionately exploring and sharing the erotic arts in aware and delicious ways.

Should you enjoy this introductory workshop and want to explore deeper, Artemisia offers more in-depth one-on-one sessions and lessons and a far more in-depth 2 day workshop on this topic.  Join her mailing list to hear about upcoming opportunities and browse her Conscious Erotic Arts and Conscious Kink websites for current offerings.